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How to Attract and Seduce a Libra Man

How to Attract and Seduce a Libra Man

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Libra men love to flirt, and they can be devastatingly charming. If you are interested in a Libra man, you have a challenge. They tend to be interested in the game of seduction, but they rarely bring that game to the next level.

In this article, we will give you some tips on how to attract a Libra man, how to seduce a Libra man, and how to win him.

The Astrology of Attraction and Seduction

While most people know their Sun Sign, there is more to us than that. When we took our first breath, all of the planets were in a unique combination in the sky, and there was a sign that was Rising in the East which is know as your Ascendant.

There are 12 main archetypes, and each zodiac sign represents one of these archetypes. If you know your date, time and place of birth, you can get such a map at Astrology Season.

If you are looking for how to attract a Libra man or how to seduce him, the three most important sign placements are the Sun, the Ascendant, and Venus. This article will work if your man has his Sun, Ascendant or Venus in Libra.

Your Venus sign is never more than two signs away from your Sun Sign. This means that if a man has a Libra Sun, there is a good chance that his Venus is also in Libra. If so, this article will be doubly accurate. The other possible Venus placements with a Libra Sun are Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, or Sagittarius.

Profile of a Libra Man and His Woman

The archetype for Libra is the Diplomat. The job of the Diplomat is to facilitate communication between foreign countries and people. As such, he must be pleasant and polite.

He must also be skilled at being all things to all people, which means that he has to understand many different cultures and ways of being. He wants balance and harmony, and for diverse people to get along with each other.

There is much more to Libra than meets the eye. His charm gives him exposure to lots of different people, and he has a taste for the unusual and the exotic. With all of Libra’s charm, it can be surprising to learn just how intelligent and curious he is. He is attracted to someone who will stimulate him intellectually and surprise him. He wants the foreign princess.

The foreign princess is intelligent and well-bred. She is also exotic and unusual. Finally, she has an air of strength and command that a Libra man will find irresistible.

How to Attract a Libra Man

How to Attract a Libra Man

Now that we have seen the archetypal Libra man and his partner, let us look at how to attract a Libra man.

1) Learn the art of flirtation

For a Libra man, flirtation is an art form, and he enjoys being with people with whom he can share his craft. If this is not something you are generally good at, follow his lead. He is more interested in charming you than he is in you charming him, but he enjoys a good verbal exchange.

It is important for you to remember, however, that for him, this is a game. So, enjoy yourself, but do not take it too seriously at this point.

2) Have good manners

In learning how to attract a Libra man, it is crucial that you pay attention to your manners. A Libra man will be turned off if you are rude or coarse in your behaviour or language. Courtesy and harmony matter to him more than anything else, and he needs to know that you can behave yourself in public.

The most important thing will be that you are polite to others, such as the waitstaff at the restaurant. If you are rude, especially in public, he will be mortified. He will not say anything, but he will not ask you out on a date again.

Remember to say “please” and “thank you,” and have a pleasant smile.

3) Be interesting

One of the most important things about how to attract a Libra man is that you must be interesting to him. A Libra man is endlessly curious and wants to be with someone who expands his horizons. There must be something unique about you, or perhaps you have a hobby that is new to him.

It is also important to show that you are intelligent. A Libra man needs to be stimulated intellectually. Talk about things that you know well. Libras generally have a lot of knowledge about many different things. He will be quite happy to have a conversation with you on whatever your interests and hobbies are.

4) Dress well

An important thing to remember if you are wanting to know how to attract a Libra man is to pay attention to how you look. A Libra man will notice your appearance. He is looking for someone who is dressed neatly and somewhat conservatively.

For a Libra man, the way he looks in public is extremely important to him, and this will include who he is seen with. If you look sloppy or too flashy, he will have no interest in you at all.

How to Seduce a Libra Man

How to Seduce a Libra Man

One of the frustrating things about a Libra man is that they can seem to be all talk and no action. Below we will talk about how to seduce a Libra man and get him to do more than just flirt with you.

5) Be slightly aloof

A Libra man wants to seduce you–he does not want to be seduced. If you appear as if you are uninterested in him, it will make him want you all the more. By the same token, if you seem like you are trying to seduce him, it will turn him off. On the other hand, if you are too aloof, he may not think he has a chance with you.

The best way to achieve this balance is to be yourself with him, even if you desire him. Do not make the first move, but if he makes a romantic gesture to you, and you like it, let it show in your face and demeanour. This will encourage him to keep going. He will do the work from there.

6) Be a little naughty

A Libra man will usually be rather conservative and is almost always worried about how he looks in public. Yet, underneath this, he has a side that wants to get away with being bad, at least a little every now and then. If you are looking for how to seduce a Libra man, try being a little naughty. He will enjoy it if you do something slightly rebellious and encourage him to be your partner in crime.

It cannot be anything big, nor anything that would cause serious trouble or annoyance for anyone. It has to be something that you can do without being caught by anyone else. He will not want the embarrassment of being found out, but the risk of it could be fun.

Examples could be sneaking outside food into a movie theatre, or suggesting that you try something unconventional in bed. You could wear a conservative outfit, with something quite a bit more revealing underneath that he knows about.

7) Talk to him

Libras, men and women, love to talk. They enjoy stimulating conversations. He very likely has interesting and unconventional opinions that he will be happy to share with you. Listen to these opinions and share your own.

Don’t worry if the conversation seems to last forever, and you are not getting to anything else. The longer that you talk the more his desire for you with grow.

Feel free to share your own opinions with him, even if you think that he will not agree with them. A Libra man enjoys hearing different opinions. He sees all sides of every issue, and he really does want to know what you think.

8) Appreciate his romantic gestures

If you are wanting to know how to seduce a Libra man, it is important to allow him to demonstrate his chivalry and charm. A Libra man will want to open doors for you, help you put on your coat, and pull out your chair you. He may also order for you at the restaurant. He is trying to be the perfect gentleman. All of these things are showing you that he really likes and desires you and that he wants to please you. Let him do them. Smile and say thank you.

It is fun to be a princess every so often, and with a Libra man, you have the perfect opportunity. Because not all women receive these things well, he may be tentative at first. If you want to seduce him, however, it is best to encourage him. The more he can be a gentleman to your princess, the more he will be interested in other things as well.

How to Win a Libra Man

How to Win a Libra Man

We have talked about how to attract a Libra man and how to seduce a Libra man. Now, we will talk about how to win a Libra man. While a Libra man enjoys flirting and the game of romance, it can be hard to get him to settle down with one person.

The natural partner for any sign is the sign that is opposite to it. In this case, the opposite sign to Libra is Aries. A Libra man needs someone in his life who is decisive and who can take charge.

9) Discuss his flirting

When we talked about how to attract a Libra man, we discussed how he liked to flirt. While that was all well and good when you were trying to get his attention, it can be a big problem as you are trying to develop a long-term relationship with him.

If you get angry and jealous, this may bring some drama and even sexual energy to your relationship, but this is a poor way to manage things if you want to be with him on a more permanent basis.

The best thing to do is to talk to him about it. It is best not to do so in a hurt or angry manner. This will just create defensiveness and denial on his part. It is better to do so in a calm and even light-hearted manner. It would be hard to get him to stop his behaviour completely, but perhaps you can set some boundaries and ground rules that you can live with.

10) Encourage him to be direct with you

A Libra man needs a partner that he can be honest with. He puts on a mask all of the time. Remember, he is the Diplomat. He needs a place that he can speak his mind and be himself. One of the ways you can do this is to make him tell you what he wants rather than hinting at it.

If you have been with him long enough that a long-term relationship may be a possibility, you have learned to read him somewhat. You often find yourself doing what he wants without him having to say anything.

If you want him to be direct with you, however, you need to wait until he tells you. To keep the wait short, you can ask him about what he is hinting. At first, he may deny it, but it will not be long before he does tell you.

When he does, do what he has asked for immediately. This will let him know that you want to please him as much as he wants to please you, and that he can talk to you about what he wants and needs. Furthermore, it will go a long way towards building trust between you.

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In this article, we have talked about how to attract a Libra man and get his attention. We have also talked about how to seduce a Libra man and get him to go beyond flirtation with you.

Lastly, we have talked about how to win him and get him to settle down with you. What do you think? We would love to hear from you.


Friday 8th of January 2021

I’m a Virgo, I really do not have issues with him, he just doesn’t call often... me I get to be aloof... he comes back again to me... but really this is so accurate about been polite and been charming... I’m just myself and we flow well.


Wednesday 25th of December 2019

I am a gemini woman I date this libra guy for months now we're staying together I never get chance to read this article but from now everything will change we were having some issues I was stress so much I evern lose weight but I know where I was wrong hopefully things will be oky as old days when ee are still new


Tuesday 16th of July 2019

This article was extremely well and I love how accurate the information is on me and I hope that I find a intelligent Aries partner and I will recommend her to read this good luck


Friday 17th of May 2019

It says to try an Aries.

I am an Aries and I am currently after a Libra man I met in Qatar but lives in California and I live in Texas. This description of him is extremely accurate. It had me laughing the entire time reading it because I know I am exactly what he needs.


Wednesday 10th of April 2019

OMG! I am a Libra male and I want to say that you are spot on with your description, especially the part about being attracted to the foreign princess. People that I have shared this with think I am strange. In the process of getting a divorce from my Libra wife of ten years - she avoided all forms of conflict like the plague and didn't love me for almost the entire marriage. It was a personal hell for me. I am a little excited about being single again. Never date a Libra woman again. It's crazy how much I desire a partnership with a woman - foreign princess. I am only going to date Leo and Gemini women from now on.