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How to Get a Libra Man to Miss You

How to Get a Libra Man to Miss You

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Libra men can be wonderful and charming. They can also be confusing and frustrating.

The Libra communication style can be difficult to understand. What makes it worse is that Libra men tend to be extremely charming when they are dating you and seem to cool off as your relationship grows deeper.

When this happens, you may feel like he does not love you, and you may be wondering how to get a Libra man to miss you.

These feelings may be the signal that there is something wrong in your relationship, or they just might be that you are not understanding his indirect communication style.

In this article we will talk about how to tell whether there is still a flame that can be rekindled.

If there is still a flame, we will talk about how to get a Libra man to miss you all over again.

4 Ways to get a Libra man to miss you and rekindle your relationship

If you have determined that there is indeed a problem, but that he still cares about you, you can begin the work of finding out what is wrong.

The main thing to remember is that relationships are important to Libra men, so if you have to even worry about making him miss you, there is something that is bothering him.

The trick is determining what it is. In order to do this, you need to get him to talk, which is not an easy task. Below are some things that you can try.

1) Ask him directly

If you want to know how to get a Libra man to miss you, you can try asking him directly.

If he tells you right away, you are in very good shape, and the problem is usually small and easily fixed.

The closer he feels to you, the more honest he will be. The more difficult the problem, the less likely it is that he will share it.

If he tells you that there is nothing wrong, you have a lot more work to do. You will need to do a bit of a guessing game.

Think of the possibilities of what could be wrong and ask him about each of them specifically. If you find the right one, he will admit to it or vehemently deny it.

In either case, you have a pretty good idea that you have found the problem.

Once you have identified the problem, the two of you can work together towards resolving it.

2) Talk about your own feelings

If you are wanting your Libra man to miss you, you are most likely unhappy about how the relationship is going.

Try telling him about it. Do so in an honest and open fashion, without being too confrontational.

You have already established that he still loves you, and if he does, he will want to take care of you and make sure you are happy.

Talking about your feelings will also open the door for him to talk about his own.

It may be that he is upset about similar things that you are, and if so, it is even more likely that he will open up.

A good, honest conversation with him will go a long way towards rekindling your romance.

3)  Do something interesting or surprising

It could be that there is not a specific problem, but that the spark has fizzled in your relationship. This happens in all relationships from time to time.

The sign related to romance for a Libra man is Aquarius. If you want to know how to make a Libra man miss you all over again, pique his curiosity.

Start a philosophical discussion, and take an unconventional position. Talk about something that you have read.

A Libra man is attracted to intelligence, so show yours. Dress in a different way than you usually do.

Say something shocking or surprising. This will make you very sexy to him, and it could be just the thing you need to

4) Let him do what he wants sometimes

Libra men want to please their partners. This may mean that he sets aside his wants and needs for yours.

Also, his indirect communication style means that you may miss his hints when he is asking for things.

While he is happy to do things for you, everyone, even Libra men, want to get their wants and needs met from time to time.

In order to do this, pay close attention when you are deciding things together. Chances are that you are making the majority of the decisions.

If you ask him what he wants to do, and he says he does not know and defers to you, do not accept this at face value.

Wait a few minutes before jumping in with a decision. Wait for him to suggest something and ask if it is what you want. Generally, that is what he wants!

The Libra communication style

In order to understand how to make a Libra man miss you, or even to know whether he misses you or not, it is important to learn his unique language.

This sign rarely communicates directly. Libra men are usually more direct than Libra women, but it can still be frustrating and confusing for a non-Libra person to read them.

There is a feature of Japanese culture that may help give context for how a Libra behaves.

This is that there is an accepted contrast between tatamae, the face you show in public, and honne, your true thoughts and feelings.

A Libra person of either gender will usually instinctively understand this. The way a Libra man behaves in public or with acquaintances is very different from how he behaves in private and with those he is close to.

Often he is more outwardly attentive and charming in public than he is in private. This can leave you feeling hurt and confused.

You may think that there is something wrong in your relationship because of this.

Does your Libra man miss you?

This is a complicated question, and it takes some deciphering and detective work on your part.

The reason for this is that romantic relationships and sexual desire are ruled by the 5th sign from the sign in question.

The 5th sign from Libra is Aquarius. This means that as his physical attraction to you grows, he will start to seem more aloof.

What will make this worse is that friendships are governed by the 11th sign, which in this case is Leo. This means that in public, he may flirt more with others than with you!

As the relationship grows into a commitment, this will get even more confusing.

Committed relationships are governed by a person’s opposite sign, which for Libra is Aries. So, there is a strong possibility that he will get argumentative or even somewhat rude as things progress.

As frustrating as this is, it can be a valuable key to knowing how he really feels about you.

Are Libra men jealous?

We can see how this works with the question of are Libra men jealous. If you are thinking of how to make a Libra man miss you, it may be because of his flirtatious behavior in public.

You are feeling jealous and want him to be jealous in return. The worst way to handle this would be by flirting with others in front of him.

Here is the most likely result of this tactic. He may very well feel jealous or upset, and he will feel insecure in the relationship.

You might think that this would be a good thing; turnabout is fair play after all.

The thing is that when a Libra man feels insecure, he will mentally move you to the level of an acquaintance.

When he does this, he becomes excessively polite, which means you will never know how he really feels. He certainly will not talk about or show you his feelings of insecurity or jealousy.

How to know how a Libra man really feels

The way to determine the feelings of a Libra man is to use a more direct approach. Confront him with his behavior, and let him know that it is putting your relationship in jeopardy.

Before you do, realize that he will almost never actually admit to his flirtations. He may not even really know that he is doing it.

That is not what matters. His response to this will tell you what you need to know.

If he responds with anger or defensiveness, that is a really good sign. It means that he has bonded with you enough to show you his true feelings.

You do not need to continue the argument. You have the information you were looking for, and you have seen how to get a Libra man to miss you.

In the following days and weeks, he will very aggressively and directly work to assure you that he wants you in his life.

It will be quite clear that he does not want you to go away. He will show you the signs that he likes you all over again.

If he responds by being charming or with polite reassurance, then you know you have a problem.

You can be more certain that there is a problem if he starts to become more distant with you in the following days and weeks.

This is when you need to know whether there is hope, and if there is, how to make a Libra man miss you.

Is there hope of your Libra man missing you again?

Before thinking about making a Libra man miss you, you need to know if it will be possible.

More than any other sign, with a Libra man, it is important to assess whether there is a relationship to save. This is because it is highly unlikely that a Libra man will actually end the relationship.

Instead, if he no longer has feelings for you, he will be hoping that you will break up with him, saving him the trouble and unpleasantness.

Actually, the best case scenario for him would be if you quietly went away without saying anything about it at all.

Ignoring a Libra man

This is when ignoring a Libra man will be telling. If you do not call him, or withdraw in some other way, he will do one of two things.

If he no longer has feelings for you, he will be relieved and do nothing. You may never see him again if you do not make any initiative to contact him.

Now, even if he does still have feelings, he might not respond right away. He will probably be wondering and worrying about what to do.

Libras, men or women, hate to take direct action. It is crucial to give it some time, though.

Eventually, if he still cares, he may not be able to stand it anymore and will break the silence to ask you what is wrong. If he does not do this after some time, you can try to break the silence yourself.

If he does not answer your calls or is calm and pleasant, the relationship is probably over. You know he still loves you if he expresses that he is upset or shows genuine relief to hear from you.

It is then that the information about how to get a Libra man to miss you will be valuable.

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In this article, we have talked about many different issues which can make you wonder how to get a Libra man to miss you.

Libra men have a distinct relationship pattern and indirect communication style that can make a partner feel insecure.

Please let us know what you think, and let us know your experiences with Libra men.


Monday 11th of January 2021

As I read the comments, I can't agree less! I got to know this Libra on Tinder and we finally met after 3 months. We connected so well and chatted everyday and met up again 3 times. Then he never seemed to have time to meet. Whenever I asked if he will be keen to meet, he says yes but some how the timing is never right, work problem, other issues, etc. He doesn't suggest any alternative days BUT the thing is we still chat daily and even do video calls like almost weekly. I confronted him but he always explains about bad timing and ignore the part on why he doesn't suggest another date. He gets defensive and says it's not like what I think. I know Libra does not like the unpleasantness of making an exit so I told him it is all right if he isn't keen, he didn't need to reply; just go silent, it is ok. He REPLIED the next morning with Good morning..... and went chatting as normal. He replied to part of my message saying he is not going silent BUT he does not explain my question on why we are not meeting. Help! It is frustrating and I think I like him too much to take a chance on this.


Thursday 2nd of July 2020

I need help!!!! I have a question, help me out girls. I met a Libra man on Tinder. He was unlike any other guy that I ever dated, but I think he really grounded me and called me out on my crap. It was an odd pairing, but I think in the end it had potential. Anyways, covid made it impossible for us to meet f2f (we live quite far away from each other, normally wouldn’t be a problem, but now it is), so we chatted for over two months now, did voice and video calls (his suggestion), but on several occasions he did express very strongly (for a Libra man) that I pushed and talked too much (yes, I tend to talk a lot when on the phone, because I’m sort of scared ppl will grow bored, but not in person and he wouldn’t believe me ofc). He messaged me everyday with pictures and just talking about his day, but the messages were shorter and rarer every week. There was distance compared to the beginning. But there were messages. He didn’t want to call anymore though. Or the calls were short. He claimed he didn’t have time (we all know that was an excuse). I tried talking to him about it several times, every time ended backing off, because he was like “don’t push it”. But we had slight disagreements over that. But he still messaged me everyday. So eventually I confronted him about it by expressing my thoughts and feeling on the subject and he said that he thought we weren’t a good fit, wasn’t sure if our personalities matched. I countered. I was super hurt, but said ok good bye. And he said: “wait what? Why do you want to say good bye?”. And then went to sleep. But the following day there he goes again: “good morning”. So I asked him what he wanted to be going forward and he said he didn’t know and had no answer. So I thought about it and messaged him with my thoughts saying how I was trying not too push, so I basically stopped sharing the interesting parts of me, because I was scared and didn’t know what would tick him off, how I missed how we used to talk in the beginning, and that if he wanted to chat with me further it was ok, but he needs to give us a fresh start, because he has preconceptions about me being pushy and overly chatty and doesn’t believe me when I say it doesn’t look like that in real life (it really doesn’t, I am actually a very popular woman in real life, I never need to push...). Unfortunately my message was suuuuupwr long, as I suck at being concise whenI finally do speak. He read it and left it on read. Hasn’t responded since. It’s been over 24hrs (lol)...Seems short, but the point is..never previously has this happened. Even when I thought that I’d done it, he would always text me with a “good morning” the following day and pretend nothing had happened. But now...nothing. I’m lost. And unfortunately I think I am in love. What can I do, and can I do anything to get him back? Waiting is excruciating. I will wait 3 days, but if he doesn’t say hello till weekend comes....what can I do? Please help ladies!!!!


Monday 22nd of June 2020

they are soooo difficult to handle.. very frustrating MOST of the time


Wednesday 8th of April 2020

I think I lost my Libra man. I couldn’t figure him out and I the the impatience and frustration get to me. I want him back so bad but I don’t know how to go about it. I don’t know if I should call him or let some time pass or call wait for him to call me. I really don’t know what to do. It hasn’t even been a week and I miss him so much. I’m a Leo woman.

Nasima noor

Monday 4th of January 2021

Me also.. I am sagittarius


Tuesday 17th of December 2019

I have been off an on with my Libra man 7 years he chased me for months I went out on a date with him about 3 times an he told me he wanted a relationship I was still in love with my ex so I disappeared on him no sex in the 6 mths I went on with my life an for got about him then 8 mths later he calls an asked me out on a date to see a concert I went that nite he tells me he loves me an wants forever things were great for ab 5 mths but his ex kept calling every five minutes I blew on him an things got heated up I walked away an went back to my ex even though I was so in love with him but he was to Dam difficult to deal with so 2 years go by I get a call he’s really sick so I went see him an took care of him for a two weeks I told him I loved him an walked out an didn’t look back so here we are 3 in a half years later he calls an just says I’ve been single since you left an I said so I cut him off a disappear on him then he calls as says will you be my girlfriend I was so confused like what the hell out the blue you decide you want a relationship again I’m a cancer so difficult I’ll argue are flip out an walk away even if it hurts I’m not ever gonna change an he don’t give up I gave in that nite an said what the hell let’s do this so he picked me up from work an we when to his house we talked about never leavin each other an then we talked about the ex girlfriend an he quickly handled that but the strangest thing that nite was when he payed down he put his head on my chest an said this is the life I want with you I felt all his emotions then the next week he’s all fickled he’s so confusing at times he brings up marriage now it’s funny how things change day to day with Libra man we still together want we have our moments I can choke him an love him at the. Same time loving a Libra man is not easy at all so you really have to love them are you’ll kill them lmao good luck if you with a Libra man we have a 17 year age gap so we see things different at times but for the most part we are in sink for sure I just pray I don’t have to leave him again lol good luck ladys