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How to Attract, Seduce and Win a Gemini Man

How to Attract, Seduce and Win a Gemini Man

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A Gemini man is easy to attract, but it can be very hard to keep him around long enough to seduce him. It can be even harder to get him to stay long enough to win him. A Gemini man is interested in many different things, but he is easily distracted and has a short attention span. In this article, we will give you ideas about how to attract a Gemini man. We will also guide you with respect to how to keep his attention long enough to seduce him and win him.

Attraction and Seduction in Astrology

Sun Signs are important in understanding a man and what he likes, but there is much more to us than our Sun Signs. Every moment in time is marked by a unique configuration of planets and stars overhead. A person’s birth chart is determined by this configuration at the time of their first breath. From this chart, you will learn the sign of all of your planets and your Ascendant, which was the sign that was rising in the East. You can obtain such a map if you know your date, time, and place of birth. There are many sites that offer free birthcharts, including

This article will be useful in determining how to attract and seduce a man with a Gemini Sun. It will also be accurate for a man with a Gemini Ascendant or Venus.

If the man that you are interested in has a Gemini Sun, he is also likely to have a Gemini Venus as well. This is because Venus is never more than two signs away from the Sun. If this is the case, this article will have added relevance. If his Venus is not in Gemini, it will be in Aries, Taurus, Cancer, or Leo, and you may want to read the articles for his Venus sign as well.

Profile of a Gemini Man and His Woman

A Gemini man has a variety of interests. He likes to learn a little about everything and is always willing to try something new. On the other hand, he is easily bored and rarely has the attention span to study any subject in depth. He is the “jack of all trades, master of none.” When it comes to relationships, he enjoys meeting new people, but he is less interested in building or maintaining a long-term relationship with one person. If he is to do so, he has to feel confident that he will not be bored with her.

What kind of woman will be able to hold on to his attention? In order to determine this, we need to look at the sign that is 5 signs away in the zodiac. This represents the 5th House, which among other things, is the house that represents sexual attraction. In the case of Gemini, the 5th House is Libra. A Gemini man cannot resist a charming and diplomatic woman, particularly if she has a keen intellect and can talk intelligently about a variety of different topics.

How to Attract a Gemini Man

How to Attract a Gemini Man - Talk With Him

We have discussed the unique challenge posed by a Gemini man and explored the traits that will catch and hold his attention. Now let’s discuss some tips about how to attract a Gemini man.

1) Talk with him

There is nothing that a Gemini man likes to do more than talk with someone new. Not only does he like to talk, but he is happy to listen as well. Gemini is an Air Sign, and like all of the Air Signs, he needs intellectual stimulation. In conversations, a Gemini man often flits from topic to topic, and he knows a little bit about many different things. This may be a little disconcerting to you if you are from one of the steadier signs. If you can keep up with him, however, he will greatly enjoy your company.

2) Share your unique interests

While it is easy to get a Gemini man to talk with you, it can be difficult to keep him talking with you. His usual pattern is to talk with someone until someone new attracts his interest. If you are going to keep his attention, you need to be more interesting than anyone else in the room. The way that you do that is to talk about something he has never heard of. Everyone has something that makes them unique. Perhaps you have an unusual hobby, or maybe you have traveled somewhere interesting. You may have a job that is out of the ordinary.

A Gemini man collects bits of information like a young child collects seashells on the beach. If you have knowledge of anything unique, he will be excited to be with you and learn anything you have to tell him.

3) Appreciate puns

A Gemini man not only loves to talk, but he loves communication and everything about it. In particular, he loves words. For a Gemini man, words are toys, and he often plays with them. One way he plays with words is through jokes and puns. If you laugh at his jokes, he will be happy, and if you can come back with jokes of your own, he will be thrilled.

4) Use proper grammar

A Gemini man seems easy-going and light-hearted, and in many ways he is. Do not let this fool you, however. A Gemini man is a connoisseur of language, and he notices the way that people speak. For a Gemini man to feel sexual attraction, he must be intellectually stimulated. While objectively, one’s grammar is not an indication of intelligence, in the eyes of a Gemini man, it is. Whether he says anything or not, he will notice the way you speak and will judge you based on it.

How to Seduce a Gemini Man

How to Seduce a Gemini Man - Have Fun

Now that you have attracted a Gemini man and gotten his attention, how do you get him to do more than talk? Read on for ideas about how to seduce a Gemini man.

5) Write poetry for him

Poetry is artistry using language. One of the quickest ways to seduce a Gemini man is to write poetry for him. You do need to be careful, however. Your poetry needs to be good. Badly written poetry will not do the trick, no matter how romantic or heartfelt it is. It is more important to be clever than romantic. Pay attention to details concerning rhyme and meter. If you can add in entertaining or amusing parts, even better.

If you are not a poet, you can get away with writing clever new words to a song that he is familiar with. This will make him laugh, and it will help get him in the mood for a romp in the bedroom.

6) Create a romantic atmosphere

If you invite him to dinner, take the time to create a romantic atmosphere, complete with candlelight and music. Even though a Gemini man seems rather cerebral, he does enjoy romance every now and then, particularly when it comes as a surprise. He will enjoy it even more if you include something clever or unusual as a part of it.

The important thing to remember, though, is that a Gemini man needs variety. Do not think that the romantic dinner that went over well the last time will work a second time around. A Gemini man craves novelty and adventure. Take the time to be creative and unique, and you will be rewarded.

7) Vary your look

One of the biggest challenges to keeping a Gemini man around long enough to seduce him is that he gets bored very easily. This makes it hard for a Gemini man to stay faithful to one woman. So, one of the ways that you can hold his attention is to be several different women in one.

Most people have several facets of themselves, and if you look inside, you will probably find that you do as well. One of the fun parts about being with a Gemini man is that if you express all of these facets, he will love you all the more.

Do you have a sweet side and a wild side? Is there a part of you that is all business? Do you have an inner warrior? If so, dress the part every now and then. Surprise him with your look and demeanor on a regular basis.

8) Have fun

A Gemini man has a reputation for having a youthful appearance and demeanor. Part of the reason for this is that he does not take himself or life too seriously. More than anything else, he wants to enjoy himself.  So, if you want to seduce a Gemini man, let yourself have fun when you are with him.

Feel free to suggest the things that you want to do. A Gemini man is generally up for trying anything, so long as it is new and different. Now, you do want to be careful not to suggest the same thing every time you are with him. Use your creativity to come up with new and different activities on a regular basis.

You may also want to incorporate games in your romantic life. He is particularly fond of any games that make use of his intellect. It is a rare Gemini man that does not love Scrabble or Trivial Pursuit.

How to Win a Gemini Man

How to Win a Gemini Man - Travel Together

Now that we have talked about how to attract and seduce a Gemini man, let us talk about the biggest challenge of all….how to win him and keep him. A Gemini man is fun, easy-going, and entertaining. He is not necessarily reliable.

One of the biggest mistakes that people make when it comes to relationships is that they go into them thinking that their partner will change. Now, change is a part of life, and people do change regularly for better and sometimes for worse. On the other hand, most people have a core to their personality that will always be the same. It can be expressed positively or negatively, but it will always be expressed in some way.

Contrary to popular belief, it is possible for a Gemini man to remain faithful to a partner. On the other hand, if he is to do so, she needs to be the right type of partner. If you are the type of person that wants a quiet, stable life with predictable routines, a Gemini man is probably not the right person for you. If you are a person who sees life as a series of adventures, you may be the one who can hold his attention. Below are some suggestions for how to win and keep a Gemini man.

9) Travel

While each sign is attracted to the fifth sign from them in the zodiac, its natural partner is its opposite. The opposite sign of Gemini is Sagittarius. One of the characteristic traits of a Sagittarius is the need to wander and roam. A Gemini man will be happy to travel with you, but even if you travel by yourself, it will help keep his attention, particularly if you travel to other countries, the more exotic, the better.

Travel broadens your horizons and gives you stories that you can tell about your adventures. This will keep you interesting and exciting to your Gemini man.

As a corollary to this, you may want to consider learning other languages. A Gemini man’s love of words is not limited to his native language. He enjoys other languages as well. It is very likely that he will speak a little of several languages, and if he can speak them with you, it will make him very happy.

10) Consider an unconventional arrangement

Not everyone can manage or tolerate an unconventional arrangement, such as an open marriage, but if you can, you may want to consider one with your Gemini man. It is hard to keep a Gemini man from straying, so may want to think about whether this is a battle that you want to fight. One of the advantages of an unconventional arrangement is that it gives you the opportunity to negotiate rules and boundaries.

Now, these type of arrangements have their own perils, and if that is not for you, you will at least need to give him room for friendships and activities away from you. If you try to hold on to your Gemini man too tightly, you will lose him.

11) Keep your jealousy and possessiveness under control

Whatever arrangement you make with your Gemini man, you will need to curb any tendency on your part to become possessive or jealous. These are natural feelings, but your Gemini man is who he is. Even if he is completely faithful to you, he will need to talk with other people, and he may seem like he is flirting. The reason for this is that he is truly interested in what other people have to say, particularly if it is new and different.

If you think that he is flirting with someone else, the best thing to do is to ask him about her. Do so in a way that shows interest and is not accusative. So long as he does not think you are mad at him, he will probably be happy to tell you all about the conversation. This will give you the information that you need to decide how to handle the situation.

12) Learn new things

If you want to hold on to a Gemini man over time, you will need to remain interesting to him. The best way to do this is to continually learn new things. Take a class, learn a new hobby, read lots of books. While these activities might be fun together, you are probably better off doing them by yourself. If you do them with him, he will already know what you have learned. If you do them by yourself, you will have new and fascinating information to share with him.

Even when you are not sharing what you have learned, being well-read and knowledgeable about many topics will make you a better conversation partner over time.

If you want to feel that incredible, wonderful connection with your Gemini man, then the Gemini Man Secrets “Roadmap” is the most comprehensive guide ever created to understanding a Gemini man.

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A Gemini man is a lot of fun, but he can be a difficult relationship partner. If you want to attract, seduce, or win him, you need to be interesting and full of surprises. We would love to hear from you. Do you have a Gemini man in your life? How do you keep his attention? Please comment below.


Thursday 1st of October 2020

I used to have a gemini man. ‘Used’ to because I lost him when I kept nagging him and getting jealous almost all the time. Of course that infuriated him and turned him off. Like, who wouldn’t, right? So I guess he doesn’t like me anymore and recently, he seems to be interested in someone else.