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12 Obvious Signs a Gemini Man Likes You

12 Obvious Signs a Gemini Man Likes You

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A Gemini man who likes someone is known for his spontaneous and fun-loving personality, but a Gemini man in love can be even more surprising!

This zodiac sign has a certain child-like spontaneity and curiosity about the world and people that surround him.

With an extremely wide array of interests and fascination for everyone and everything, it can be hard to tell if he is falling for you or if he is just interested in you for the moment!

Read on to discover the 12 obvious signs a Gemini man likes you, and what kind of woman do Gemini men like. 

Signs a Gemini Man Likes You

1. He will be extra sweet and romantic

If a Gemini man likes you he will make sure to compliment you on your appearance and be extremely attentive to your needs.

A Gemini man in love will ensure you feel special and that you are doted upon with an extra dose of sweetness.

He will want to make sure you feel taken care of and will say sweet things to you to make you feel good.

If a Gemini man is attracted to you he will make sure to make cute gestures of romance like giving you a bunch of wildflowers he picked himself to show he cares. He will try to give you a lot of affection in public including romantic hugs and kisses.

To top it all off the Gemini man will most definitely want to capture these moments in a pic and post to his social media accounts as an added measure of romanticism to show you he likes you!

Gemini Relationship Selfie

2. He will buy or make you little thoughtful gifts

If a Gemini man has feelings for you he will channel this into buying or making you thoughtful gifts. As an air sign, the Gemini is known for coming up with inventive ideas.

Not one for show off types of gestures, this zodiac sign will make you gifts that are tailored to your specific interests.

For example, he may find out what music you like and make sure to download all of your favorite artist’s songs to your workout playlist as a surprise!

The Gemini man gets pleasure out of making and creating things with his hands and he will want to put in effort into impressing you with his skills. He may set up a craft cocktail night and show off his skills putting together your favorite drink to show you he wants you.

3. He will communicate with you in every way possible

Known as the zodiac sign associated with communication your Gemini man will use every method of transmission to show you he likes you.

He will use text, e-mail, social media, video chat, and even a phone call here and there to be able to make extra contact with you.

If a Gemini man is attracted to you he will enjoy sharing his ideas and will want to make sure he is in constant contact with you regarding his thoughts and opinions.

He will want to share funny memes and other interesting information he has picked up throughout the day. He will really enjoy getting messages from you as well!

4. He will want to attend parties with you

When a Gemini man has a crush on you, he will invite you to parties and social occasions.

Not only will he want to show you off to his friends and colleagues but he will also want to make sure you have a great time meeting people he finds interesting and worthy of your attention.

Your Gemini man will make the party rounds and be sure to introduce you to all of his friends and maybe..ahem..even some former paramours.

He will have surely moved on from these past trysts as you are the new object of his affection. He will stroll you around the room proud to have an equally interesting and witty partner by his side for the event.

Your Gemini man wants to make sure you can let loose and have fun with him so he will want you there having fun by his side. 

5. He will want to spend his free time with you

When a Gemini man is interested in someone or something his curiosity will drive him to learn everything he can about that person or thing.

A Gemini man shows he likes someone by wanting to spend a lot of time with them. He will want to see you constantly and meet up with you even if just for a quick bite of lunch or to grab a coffee.

This zodiac sign is known for needing constant stimulation and he will crave entertainment and attention from the people he likes.

He will want to connect with you on a physical level when he likes you beyond the mental stimulation he desires. He will want you all to himself for days at a time absorbed in your own interesting little universe.

A Gemini man will be completely involved in the present moment and share his every thought and idea with you during this time.

Gemini Man showing his love

6. He will want to have new experiences with you

One way a Gemini man will give away his interest in you is by taking you to new and interesting places. He craves new adventures and he will want you there by his side to have these new experiences with him.

He will love traveling, meeting new people, and seeing all the sights. The Gemini man will no doubt want you there every step of the way as a sign that he likes you!

He will make bold decisions and take risks like trying to travel across a country with no money just to prove to you and to himself that he can make any situation work on wit and charm.

He will most likely want you to move around with him a lot and see the world, new cities, and new places. The Gemini man needs to be moving in and out of new places quickly to keep up with his ever-changing interests. 

7. He will want to have long and interesting conversations with you

Nothing turns a Gemini man on more than having a long drawn out and intricate socio-political conversations. This air sign will want nothing more than to be mentally stimulated through extensive discussions that bounce from topic to topic.

He will want to discuss everything and anything from the latest local gossip to brilliant ideas about life, science, and belief.

A way to tell a Gemini man likes you is that will be extremely open to your opinions and open to any topic you want to discuss.

Your Gemini man will, of course, be absolutely taken with your mind and fascinated by your ability to connect with him mentally.

As we mention in our guide to seducing a Gemini man, a mental connection for a Gemini man will lead to a physical connection.

8. He will plan spontaneous romantic dates

A Gemini man will show hs is attracted to you by taking you on spontaneous romantic dates. If he is willing to do this for you that is a sure sign he likes you!

He will show up at your house at all hours, this is not a “booty-call” by the way, to take you on exciting romantic adventures.

Your Gemini man will show up with a picnic basket packed and a tandem bike ready to take you on a romantic date in the park. Gemini is the sign of the twins after all so doing things in two’s is his forte.

He will have everything planned out for the day and be thrilled at expressing his boyish romanticism with you.

He will show you he likes you by having all the details of the day sorted with spontaneous and fun activities planned out for each step of the date.

You never know where you may end up with a Gemini man.

Gemini Man Romantic Hideaway

9. He will flirt and joke around with you

When a Gemini man likes you he will flirt with you constantly. He will play pranks on you and expect you to be light-hearted in return about this!

This zodiac sign is able to laugh and find humor in most aspects of life and will take a light-hearted approach to his affection for you. He will poke fun at you as a sign that he likes you.

A Gemini man has the innate ability to draw you in with his boyish charm and get you in on playing his flirtatious game.

If he likes you he will make direct eye contact and be enraptured with your every move and thought. He will lean in to show he is truly listening and that you have his attention.

Being flirtatious but hard to get is a great way to get a Gemini man addicted to you.

10. He will work extra hard to win your heart

A Gemini man is known for easily landing a lady, therefore, he will work extra hard to prove that he is serious about a relationship with you and that you are not just flavor of the week when he really likes you.

He will make every effort to demonstrate that you mean more to him than just the chase and that he wants this relationship to last.

He will make sure he knows your likes and dislikes so he can play up the positives in your budding relationship.

A sign that a Gemini man is falling in love is if he is willing to put in that extra work to gain your long-lasting affection in return.

He will be searching for loyalty, something that does not always come easily to the zodiac sign of Gemini!

He will want to prove how loyal he is to you and that he is faithful and ready to make a commitment when he really likes you!  

11. He will want to be a team

One of the signs a Gemini man secretly in love with you is he will want to partner up and share every aspect of life with you! A Gemini man views his relationships as a team effort.

Think, “Two-peas-in-a-pod,” as he is the astrological symbol of the twins, he will be searching for a teammate in love.

Your Gemini man is looking for his “partner in crime” and wants someone he can share every aspect of life with.

He is looking for someone to be free with him and discover the wide range of human existence and experience. He will think of you as a good friend and a romantic partner.

12. He will be there for you with staying power

A Gemini man will show he likes you by being there for you. He will want to be a person you can really rely on for emotional support.

He will be there for you when you need him and will want to show you he is dedicated to your well-being.

Your Gemini man will show you he cares by checking in on you throughout the day.

If you want to feel that incredible, wonderful connection with your Gemini man, then the Gemini Man Secrets “Roadmap” is the most comprehensive guide ever created to understanding a Gemini man.

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This social and talkative zodiac sign of a Gemini man may seem like he is giving you the run around at times as he is a hard zodiac sign to pin down.

A Gemini man is known for his adaptability and changing his mind often as his attention flits from thing to thing.

His fascination can wane quickly so building a relationship with him takes time and dedication.

Knowing these 12 obvious signs a Gemini man likes you can help guide the way to laying the foundation for a strong and lasting relationship.

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What do you think, does your Gemini man behave in these ways when he wants you?


Wednesday 16th of December 2020

I'm am Aries women and only we can tame a Gemini man..hands down my sexy Gemini is in love with me..the feeling is totally mutual..

All signs except Seggitarius; are our victims 😈 All other signs 😊

Ivy mirah

Tuesday 7th of February 2023

@Tiona, really I love this


Wednesday 14th of October 2020

I'm a capricon woman dating a Gemini guy for a second time,yes we dated before but he went awol on me and now we are in a long distance relationship ,so far so good .He text on regular basis,wakes me up at night for just a talk. This dude still remembers how our love making used to be like, what we did or said,I mean that was 9 years ago.....I like him a lot,he makes me let loose and be free hey. We have'nt been intimate for the second time hopefully this time we will date for longer period and he won't vanish

Michaela bb

Friday 7th of August 2020

Hi, I’ve been dating a Gemini guy since last October. Things where going great until February when he stoped texting or it cut down. I asked him what’s wrong and he he said nothing then eventually said he’s not ready for relationship. When I came back to the city I had to get my belongings from him and he was very affectionate and touchy and I was cold, not entertaining it at all. That night via message when told i was confused about what he wanted he said that he doesn’t want a relationship, wants to be just friends but wanted to see how things where with us after I returned to the city. He also seen my new bumble account and said that I have said “ I don’t know what I want” on my account and boys would just want to f*** around. Why he even bothered commenting on that. I proceeded to see him as a friend the following week, we had sex etc, even when we didn’t have sex, he was cuddling me, being affectionate .he would have long chats on the phone occasionally. He would have commented if my phone lit up and said “ your boyfriend is texting you- and he has done that since day one. One day he stopped replying again I texted several times and he ghosted next of WhatsApp . The following week I rang him and he sms me saying please don’t call me. I said okay that’s fine, I thought we where friends but that’s fine, I’ll not bother you again. He then said no he wanted to be friends, nothing more. Then I have seen him several times since- the usual affection, cuddling, commenting on my phone and one day he came to mine- after sex his sun glasses where lying there and I said are these yours? And he was like well who else’s are they? I assume he was trying to question if i was sleeping with anyone else. And he was holding my hand out in public on a couple occassions. Since that he has ignored me now for two weeks. I might text him again and say how I’m feeling!


Monday 30th of March 2020

So I’m into this Gemini male. We have known each other for about 4 years, but we never really went out. He used to be in a serious relationship, so we only ever spoke as friends, and we would only bump into each other At bars. They have now been broken up for like two years, and he is currently single. Well overtime while we would run into each other at the bars (often) we would talk, and hangout for the duration, and we would get to know each other more and more. So it got to the point where we would text and snap each other. Well then he asked me out, and our date literally was 15 hours (not even an exaggeration). We spent the entire day together, like one of those romance movies, and I felt a spark. Like I’ve always thought that he was attractive, but in that moment I began to feel a connection, and he even told me that I meant so much to him, and that I was really important to him. that made me melt. Since then, our communication hasn’t really changed. We talk, and even planned other dates, but it has been almost a month now since our first one. Granted corona is here at the moment, so everything is shut down, so it’s affecting our future date, but I can’t help but wonder if he’s actually interested in me or not. I’m a cancer, and communication is everything to me. It doesn’t seem like we are taking that next step, so what’s going on? I can’t help but wonder... If we weren’t going through the corona pandemic, would we have gone on our second date yet?

Jessica K.

Tuesday 21st of April 2020

The gemini guy I was with made a date happen at home and private lake, and specially ordered food for us both times. The guy you are with has to make it happen if he really wants to coronavirus or no coronavirus. It seems like you would not get that second date though even if there was not a pandemic; it's a good bit of time to draw out just talking cause he could have visited you or something with contact. Maybe he feels you guys only get along so well cause you've been friends and are just friends. You can talk everyday with someone that is just a friend and plan hangouts.


Monday 12th of August 2019

Some of the things written about Gemini men are confusing. I'm a virgo woman(Gemini mother), just ended a weird "relationship thingy" with a Gemini man. He chased me for a year and I finally went out with him, but it was only one time in the 2 years I've been "talking" to him. Wasn't in a relationship, but he acted like we were a couple. He lived with his ex and 3 kids and hid that from me. I ended it because I felt ignored by him. I listened to him and he complained about feeling lonely and would tell me he "missed me", but I told him if he would call or text me sometimes he wouldn't feel lonely. He just sits at home playing video games all the time, if he's not working. I want to go out to the movies, travel somewhere, go out to eat sometimes or just take a stroll and talk....something romantic, exciting or both. I loved him and would enjoy doing almost anything. I would try to call him, but he says he doesn't really like talking over the phone and prefers to text so I would text him once in a while. Felt like he wanted to be alone so I wouldn't really bother him, he then told me "you're never a bother". He was so nice in the beginning. He told me he fell in love after he knew me for 2 months, he said he didn't want to chase me away by saying it early so he waited a few months. I was fine with that. The love between us was nothing I've ever had before. He would gaze into my eyes and tell me, "you don't understand I love you so much it hurts" and that he wished he met me years ago. He also wanted me to have his child. He told me he prefers long term relationships. I just gave up on things because I feel he doesn't care. He doesn't really communicate well. It's not like before. He doesn't make the time and I don't feel loved anymore. He use to check on me at work, but coworkers made things difficult so I didn't really see him. We didn't spend time outside of work either, he blamed his living situation...whatever. He's moving and wanted me to go see him and spend time together, but I just gave up and told him to move and start over.