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How to Attract, Seduce and Win a Taurus Man

How to Attract, Seduce and Win a Taurus Man

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A Taurus man is quiet and hard to read. He does not make changes easily, and it is hard for him to take the initiative. This means that if you are interested in a Taurus man and you wait for him to make the first move, you could be waiting a very long time.

Read on to learn how to seduce and attract a Taurus man. We will also talk about how to win him once you have gotten his attention.

The Astrology of Attraction and Seduction

Many articles about astrology focus on a person’s Sun Sign. There are two main reasons for this. One reason is that it is easy to find out your Sun Sign. The only thing that you need to know is your birthdate.

This may be a bit more complicated if you were born on the first or last day of a sign, but other than that, you can know your Sun Sign, or anyone else’s, relatively easily. The second is the Sun represents the core part of who you are. This is your ego and the core of your identity. This means that in most cases, you will show at least some traits of this sign.

Individuals are far more complicated than their Sun Signs, however. Each person has a unique birth chart, which is the map of the sky when that person took their first breath.

You can get such a map for free online, so long as you know the date, time, and place of your birth. One such place to get a free birth chart is Astrology Season. This will let you know where every planet is in your chart, as well as several important chart points.

This article will be accurate for men whose Sun is in Taurus. It will also work if Taurus is his Ascendant or Rising Sign, which is the sign that was rising in the East, or if his Venus is in Taurus.

Also, if the man you are looking to attract and seduce has a Taurus Sun, there is a very good chance his Venus is in Taurus as well. This article will be doubly accurate in such a case. He could also have his Venus in Pisces, Aries, Gemini, or Cancer.

Profile of a Taurus Man and his Woman

Many of the images that come to mind when thinking of Taurus may seem a little dull. He likes calm and quiet. Laziness is one of the worst faults of Taurus, and Taurus men tend to be more prone to this shortcoming than Taurus women are.

A perfect life for a Taurus man will be to have a job that he has worked at for years and that we will stay at until he retires, a house with a comfortable chair and a remote control where he can watch the same shows over and over again, good food, good sex, and a quiet walk in the countryside every now and then.

Because of this, it may be surprising to know that he finds women who have a lot of nervous energy extremely attractive. He is deeply attracted to someone who can make him get out of his chair for his own good and who is efficient and can take care of practical matters. He wants an archetypal secretary.

The secretary is intelligent and competent. She knows what needs to be done and how to do it. She may be a bit critical, but that is only because she wants the best for those that she cares about. While other men may not find these traits attractive, a Taurus man will find them irresistible.

How to Attract a Taurus Man

How to Attract a Taurus Man - Talk To Him

Now that we understand the Taurus archetype and the kind of woman he likes, we can explore how to attract a Taurus man.

1. Dress neatly and conservatively

Taurus is ruled by Venus, and he does want a woman who is nice to look at. On the other hand, his tastes are simple. He is not interested in flashy or overly seductive clothing. He is also not interested in the latest styles and fashions.

A simple skirt and blouse, or even an elegant business suit, will catch his attention and make it hard for him to keep his eyes off you. Dress as if you were going to the office or meeting his parents. Make sure that your hair is well-groomed with a conservative hairstyle.

Even though he likes to be comfortable and relaxed, if you want to attract a Taurus man, do not let him see you dressed sloppily, at least not at first. When you do “let your hair down,” as it were, still keep it neat. Your casual look should just be a softer version of your more formal look.

2. Talk to him

A Taurus man is often rather shy around women. It is very hard for him to make the first move no matter how attractive you are to him. Actually, the more attracted he is to you, the harder it will be for him to approach you. On the other hand, a Taurus man tends to be conservative when it comes to gender roles, so if you come on too strong, you are likely to scare him off.

The best approach is to start a casual conversation with him, giving no indication that you might be interested in him as a potential date. Do not talk too loud or too fast, and do not be overly aggressive. Good topics to discuss are basic matters such as work or the weather. You also cannot go wrong if you talk about food.

3. Be patient

It is important not to rush a Taurus man. He does not like change, and a new relationship is a change. Taurus men sometimes talk very slowly, so give him enough time to finish what he has to say. Do not assume that a pause means that he is done talking. A good rule of thumb to wait in silence for longer than you are comfortable with before you jump in with what you have to say.

Also, a Taurus man does not always speak what is on his mind. Just because he does not speak words of romance or love does not mean he is not into you. You will know he likes you by the shy smile on his face when you are with him.

How to Seduce a Taurus Man

How to Seduce a Taurus Man - Feed Him

In popular astrology, Scorpio has the reputation as the “sexy” sign, and to a certain extent, that reputation is deserved. When it comes to sheer physicality and sensuality, however, the first prize should go to a Taurus man.

Sex is one of the pleasures and comforts of life, and a Taurus man knows how to enjoy it. For this reason, it is not hard at all to seduce a Taurus man once you have gotten his attention. Below are some simple ways to get him into the bedroom.

1. Feed him

In earlier times, there was an adage that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. While this may not be true of every man, it certainly applies to a Taurus man. You might think that with his personality, comfort food, like meat and potatoes, or his favorite meal from childhood would be best, but Taurus men are surprisingly adventurous when it comes to food.

Try something new and different. Make sure that you pay attention to the appearance of the food. Aesthetics are extremely important to this sign.

While you may think that you should cook the food yourself, you might want to think twice about it. Taurus men are usually excellent cooks, and Taurus energy is often prominent in the chart of professional chefs.

This means that he knows food. If you are not a good cook, it may be a good idea to bring home food from an interesting restaurant. Do not be upset or offended if he is critical of whatever meal you bring him. He is a connoisseur with discriminating tastes.

Alternatively, he may want to cook for you. Let him. Not only will you have the best meal of your life, but it will put him in a very amorous mood.

2. Get him out of his chair

When it comes to being able to seduce a Taurus man, your biggest enemy is his chair. Once he gets in it, he will rarely want to leave. Getting him out of it can be quite a challenge. There is no point trying to lure him out of it by being sexy. You will need to find another tactic.

The best thing to do is to have a task or a chore for him to do. Some men get annoyed if they feel nagged, and to be honest, a Taurus man does too. On the other hand, once he is up and moving, his annoyance usually fades quickly. Just ignore his initial grumpiness.

Other suggestions are to get him to take a walk with you or even go to the gym together. A Taurus man often needs prompting to exercise.

Once he has finished with whatever you want him to do, you have a chance to get him into the bedroom. The key is to make your move before he gets back into his chair. You might even want to be direct about it and overtly seduce him.

3. Be affectionate

It really is not hard to seduce a Taurus man once you are in a relationship with him. He enjoys sex, and he will be happy for any excuse to enjoy sensual pleasures. Taurus men enjoy cuddling and like hugs and kisses. It takes very little to get him in the mood.

Just in every other area of your life with him, it is a good idea to be patient. A Taurus man takes things slowly. He enjoys a long and luxurious time in the bedroom, which makes him a very good lover. He does not mind if you take the initiative, and sometimes even a slight suggestion is enough to get the ball rolling with him.

How to Win a Taurus Man

How to Win a Taurus Man - Loyalty

In order to attract a Taurus man or seduce him, it is important to be competent and intelligent. He wants and needs someone who can help him with practical matters, and who is conservative and tidy. If you want to win him as a lifelong partner, though, you need to be a bit more aggressive.

The natural marriage partner for a Taurus man is his opposite sign, Scorpio. This does not mean that you need to be a Scorpio, but you do need to exhibit some Scorpio-like traits if he is going to see you as “the One.”

1. Show your strength

There will always be a slight role reversal in a relationship with a Taurus man. Taurus is ruled by Venus. The Taurean Venus is domestic and likes beauty and comfort. For balance, he needs a partner that exhibits Martial qualities. For him to see you as a potential lifelong mate, he will need to see your strength.

Taurus is a Fixed Sign, and all of the Fixed Signs are known for their stubbornness. If he digs in his heels about something important to you, don’t back down. Now, it will be important for you to “choose your battles.” Many things are not worth fighting about, and a fight with a Taurus man can be quite an undertaking.

As we mention in our Taurus man guide, not much riles a Taurus man. However, when he does get angry, he has quite a temper. The thing is that you do not want to engage him in a battle that you cannot win.

On the other hand, if you are able to out-stubborn him without damaging the relationship, he will have a great deal of respect for you and will see you as his partner.

2. Be ready, willing, and able to be with him “so long as you both shall live”

A Taurus man marries for life. Once he has found someone, he will be deeply committed to her and will love her for the rest of his days. If you want to win a Taurus man, you need to show him that you are willing to marry for life as well. You will be the center of his life, and he will expect you to be the center of his.

It is also important to understand that a Taurus man is by nature possessive. The motto of Taurus is “I have,” and that extends to his relationships. Sometimes when couples fight, they make statements like “you don’t own me,” but deep in his heart a Taurus man does feel like he owns you if you are married to him. This is not based on chauvinism, either.

A Taurus woman would feel the same way about her husband. If you do not want that in a relationship, do not marry a Taurus man.

That being said, if you are a native of a more independent sign, there is nothing wrong with negotiating freedom to go out with your friends or pursue your career.

The best way to do so is to have a set time that is yours to do as you please. A Taurus man likes routine, and he will get used to anything that happens on a schedule.

3. By all means, do not cheat on him!

There are some signs that will forgive infidelity. Taurus is not one of them. A Taurus man will forgive almost anything of a partner or a potential partner, except for that.

Usually once a Taurus man is serious about someone, it is only a matter of time before he proposes. For this reason, so long as you remain interested in him, there is very little that you can do to mess things up.

The one thing that you can do to drive him away is show interest in other men while he is courting you.

If you have a tendency to flirt, be aware of it, and be sure to honestly reassure him that he is the only man for you. Do not even attempt to have an open relationship, even at the very beginning of it.

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A Taurus man can be a stable and loving partner. It is relatively easy to attract a Taurus man, and it is even easier to seduce him. He is a gentle soul with simple, but refined, tastes. He marries for life, and he wants a partner who will do the same.

Do you have a Taurus man in your life? Let us know about your experiences.


Sunday 7th of May 2023

I've been in a "companionship" partnership with a taurean man for the past 2yrs and, although I'm an Aquarian woman, we are soul mates. We're both divorced older people (late 50's) who love living alone but we spend our weekends together and it works. We look forward to seeing each other and have things to talk about. As an Aquarian,I have my freedom and as a Taurean, my partner has his routine. Because we have such conflicting interests, we have excellent debates and respect each others differenses and 8opinions. I don't know why we work as Taurus and Aquarius are the worst match usually, but we just seem to fit!