In synastry, Venus square Venus is a complicated aspect.
In a synastry chart, as the Planet of Love, Venus is the primary planet that governs relationships. It shows how we interact with other people.
This planet also shows what we like and the type of person that we are attracted to.
Because of this, any Venus contact between two charts indicates at least some level of compatibility.
The square, on the other hand, is the aspect of friction. Signs that are square tend to rub each other the wrong way.
Still, the tension produced by squares also can generate sexual chemistry, so this aspect is often found in people who are attracted to one another.
Venus Square Venus in Synastry
Venus square Venus in synastry generates slight annoyance between people, but it can also create a great deal of chemistry.
This aspect is much more common in a romantic relationship than it is in a friendship. In either case, it creates mixed results.
Any Venus connection between two charts is a positive sign in synastry. It indicates a connection on a deep level.
On the other hand, when it comes to a square, two people like very different things. One partner will enjoy being more active and the other will prefer quiet time together.
For complicated reasons, squares in the Fixed Signs, which are Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, and Aquarius are not as difficult.
When two people have Venus square Venus in these signs, they are usually able to come to a mutual understanding pretty quickly.
You can look at the house position of Venus in the charts of each person to see what area of life will be most influenced by this aspect.
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Man's Venus Square Woman's Venus Relationship
Venus square Venus in a synastry reading between a man and a woman can create overwhelming physical attraction.
They will be immediately drawn to each other, and it could even feel like love at first sight. Despite this, it will probably not be a fairy tale romance.
Once the initial flush of romance begins to wear off, they will realize that there are many differences between them.
One of the biggest differences is that one will be more of an extrovert and the other will be more of an introvert.
The extroverted partner will want to go out and to be with other people, and the introverted partner will prefer to stay home.
If the square is between Venus in Gemini and Venus in Virgo, however, they will have a mutual enjoyment of intellectual pursuits.
This will give them things in common, helping to cement their relationship.
For a Venus man/Venus woman relationship to thrive, it will be important for this couple to spend some time apart from one another.
They both need to have room to pursue their own interests.
If they are able to do this, the time that they do spend together will be hot and electric.
The natural tension will translate into amazing sexual chemistry.
Venus Square Venus in Friendship
Venus square Venus is a bit more difficult when it comes to friendship synastry.
This aspect creates a connection between two people, and but they tend not to have much in common.
In a romantic relationship, the friction generated by the square can resolve itself in sexual chemistry, but there is no such outlet for two friends.
Often friends who have Venus square Venus are a bit of an unlikely pair.
They come from different social circles, yet somehow find a connection.
A friend whose Venus squares yours is not necessarily the best person to go to for relationship advice.
This person does not have a natural understanding of what you want or need in a romantic partner.
Even so, this friend generally has your best interests at heart and will often be the one to tell you things that you don't want to hear but probably need to.
If the Venus-Venus square is either between Gemini and Virgo or Sagittarius and Pisces, the friends will have a lot more in common than they would in any other combination.
In either of these cases, this will be a much more positive aspect than other sign combinations.
How to Tell if Venus is Square Venus in Synastry
Venus is square Venus in synastry when this planet is at a 90-degree angle from each other in the chart of two people. This is three signs apart.
Signs that are square have the same mode, Cardinal, Fixed, or Mutable, but are of incompatible elements.
The image below shows the signs that are square to each other.
If Venus is in signs that are square each other, the influence of the square will be present to a certain extent.
The closer the planet is by degree, the stronger the aspect will be. The margin of error (orb) for Venus square Venus is 7 degrees.
It is possible for Venus in both charts to be within seven degrees of each other but not in signs that are square each other.
An example of this would be 29 degrees Gemini and 3 degrees Libra.
In this case, the aspect would be present, but it would be very weak.
The two would feel like they had things in common but would tend to rub each other the wrong way, often unexpected.
In synastry, Venus square Venus can generate attraction and sexual tension, but at the same time cause friction.
This aspect is much better in a romantic relationship than a friendship.