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Aquarius women are friendly, entertaining, and always interesting. They do not, however, tend to be all that romantic.
Aquarius women tend to be reserved and intellectual, which can make it very difficult to know if she likes you. Yet, when an Aquarius woman does eventually fall in love, she is a devoted and stable companion.
Read on to learn the signs an Aquarius woman likes you. Also see the signs an Aquarius man likes you.
Relationships in Astrology
Almost everybody knows their Sun Sign, but there is another sign that is just as important, if not more so, in determining how a person will act in relationships. This is the sign that was rising in the East at the moment of birth, and it is known as the Ascendant or Rising Sign.
You can find your Ascendant by getting a Natal Chart. You can get a free Natal Chart from Astrology Season. If you do not have an Ascendant sign, the Sun Sign will work as well.
Starting with the Ascendant/Rising Sign, or the Sun Sign if the Ascendant is not known, the chart is divided into 12 Houses. Each of these Houses represents a part of your life, and different types of relationships are located in different houses.
Dating relationships grow and change, and it is common to notice that people change as this happens. There is an astrological reason for this. This reason is that as a dating relationship grows and deepens, it moves to different House locations in the chart.
Most romantic relationships follow this path:
- 1st House: initial attraction and beginning to see each other or date.
- 11th House: developing a friendship
- 5th House: blossoming into a romance
- 7th House: becoming a long term committed relationship
This article will take you through this path and show you the signs an Aquarius woman likes you at each of these steps along the way.
Clear Signs an Aquarius Woman Likes You At Each Relationship Stage
Initial Attraction – Signs an Aquarius Woman is Interested in You
The first stage of any relationship is the 1st House, or the Sign itself, which in this case is Aquarius.
It is extremely difficult to know if an Aquarius woman likes you at this stage. The reason for that is that the Aquarius woman very likely does not know herself.
As a general rule, Aquarius is not given to expressing emotion and tends to be rather aloof. Also, Aquarius is a Fixed Sign and can be the most unmoving of the Fixed Signs.
An Aquarius woman cannot be moved by any outside force; she will only change on her own initiative. Still even at this stage, there are some subtle signs an Aquarius woman likes you.
1) She will pay more attention to you than other people in the room
If you meet an Aquarius woman in a social setting, and she spends more time with you than anyone else, it is a sure sign she finds you interesting. As an Air Sign, Aquarius is very social.
An Aquarius woman will want to interact with many different types of people. It is not unusual for Aquarius women to have friends and acquaintances from all different backgrounds, cultures, and social classes.
In her quirky way, she will be pleasant to all of them equally. It is rare for an Aquarius woman to dislike anyone, at least not at first.
If she is attracted to you, however, she will pay more attention to you than the others in the room.
If you notice this, do proceed with caution. Even if an Aquarius woman has a crush on you, she will very likely not be aware of it herself. If you make any indication that your interest is of a romantic nature, she will almost certainly reject you.
On the other hand, if she does reject you, all is not lost. If you back off with respect to romance, and she likes you, she will most likely continue to interact with you.
More than any other sign, it is best to proceed patiently and slowly with an Aquarius woman.
Despite any gender expectations you may have, it is generally a good idea to let her make the first move, particularly in the early stages of the relationship.
2) She will meet with you one-on-one
On of the clear signs an Aquarius woman likes you in the early stages is if she will agree to meet with you alone. This is not a date, mind you.
If you ask her out on a date or call your meeting a date, she will quickly decline or make it clear that it is no such thing. This is not something to worry about, though.
The fact that she is meeting with you at all is a very good sign. While Aquarius women are social, they generally prefer to meet people in groups or social events. They are not generally all that comfortable with intimate one-on-one encounters with anyone.
As always, it is best to be patient with an Aquarius woman and let her set the pace of your relationship. You might as well, as you will rarely persuade her to do anything she has not already decided herself she wants to do.
3) She will seek you out
You know you have made headway with an Aquarius woman if she initiates contact with you.
One of the idiosyncrasies of Aquarians is that they rarely seek out company. They like social gatherings and enjoy being with people, but they generally do not go out of their way to see or talk to anyone.
So, if she calls you, emails you, texts you, or in any way initiates communication with you, this is one of the sure signs an Aquarius woman likes you.
Developing a Friendship – Signs an Aquarius Woman is Feeling Close to You
With an Aquarius woman, you may be in the initial stages of your relationship for quite a long time. If you have stayed the course and not scared her off, you may enter the next stage of your relationship, which is in the 11th House.
The 11th House from Aquarius is Sagittarius. If you have reached this level with an Aquarius woman, you will notice that the relationship has taken on a more light-hearted flavor.
Below are the signs an Aquarius woman likes you and is becoming friendly with you.
4) She will start telling jokes
It may not be obvious at first, but Aquarians tend to have a really good sense of humor. Like Capricorn women, Aquarian women have a dry sense of humor. The difference is that the Capricorn humor is very earthy, but the Aquarian human is very quirky.
Aquarians view the world as outsiders, so they see things in a way that no one else does. When an Aquarius woman starts to feel close to you, she will start to share her hilarous observations with you.
5) She will show you just how eccentric she is
Aquarius has a well-deserved reputation for eccentricity and quirkiness. They revel in being outside of the norm.
It is almost certain that the Aquarian woman you are interested in has at least one, if not more, quirky hobbies or interests. She may have been in the chess club in high school or have played Dungeons and Dragons in college.
If she includes you in her eccentricities, you can be sure that this is one of the signs an Aquarius woman is interested in you.
6) She will want to take a road trip with you
As you start getting close to an Aquarius woman, she will want to go with you on a road trip. This will not be an ordinary trip to a city or a well-known vacation spot.
Aquarians are attracted to the strange and different places, and as she is getting close to you, she will want to share these types of adventures with you.
A Blossoming Romance – Signs an Aquarius Woman is Falling in Love With You
As you have been spending more and more time together, the relationship may develop into something more. The romantic stage of a relationship is located in the 5th House, and the 5th House from Aquarius is Gemini.
With an Aquarius woman, there is unlikely to be a moment where she confesses her love to you or anything of the sort. You will just find yourself in a romance and one or both of you will just acknowledge that it has happened.
Here are the signs that an Aquarius woman likes you and is falling in love.
7) She will get very talkative
Although Aquarius women are social and friendly they tend to do a lot more listening than talking. When an Aquarius woman falls in love, however, she will start to become a bit of a chatterbox. She will talk about lots of different things, and you may have trouble getting a word in edgewise. This is a sure sign that you have crossed from friendship to romance.
8) She will want to try new things with you
Aquarians become set in their ways rather early in life, usually before they start walking. Yet, when an Aquarius woman falls in love, she will begin to get curious and want to try new things.
She may want to go to new restaurants, get a different hairstyle, or try out a new clothing style. She will want to learn what you like, and she may try out some of your interests and hobbies.
9) She will analyze every aspect of your relationship
Aquarians are quite cerebral, and rather than live their life, they tend to observe it from a distance. This goes for their love life as well. Aquarians also do not worry about normal social graces or respect taboo subjects.
For that reason, they may discuss intimate matters of your relationship as if they were the subject of a college research project.
If you are a native of a more sensitive sign, this might make you feel unloved or unappreciated. This is far from the case, however. This is just what this sign does, and as strange as it may seem, it is one of the signs an Aquarian woman likes you.
Settling Down – Signs an Aquarius Woman Likes You and Wants a Long Term Relationship With You
As aloof and distant as Aquarius women seem, they do enter into marriages and long term commitments.
Long term relationships are governed by the 7th House, and the 7th House from Aquarius is Leo.
It may be surprising, but when an Aquarius woman does settle down, she usually does so for life, unless something truly unexpected happens.
10) You will realize that you are living together
The process of coming to live together is an interesting one with an Aquarius woman. First she will stay the night once or twice. Then she will leave a toothbrush and change of clothes at your house.
Then more and more of her belongings will arrive, until most of her belongings are at your house, and she has a toothbrush and change of clothes on her own.
At this point, the two of you will acknowledge that you are already living together.
This process could also be reversed with you noticing that you have already moved into her house.
11) She will suddenly become romantic
One day you will come home from work, and she will have made a romantic dinner complete with candlelight. She will be dressed in beautiful, feminine clothing.
You may be tempted to think to yourself, “Who is this woman, and what has she done with my Aquarius love?” Do not be alarmed and just enjoy it.
When this happens, you can be sure that this is one of the signs that an Aquarius woman likes you and is considering you as a long-term partner.
Aquarius women can be surprisingly charming and romantic when they find their permanent mate.
12) She may or may not be interested in a legal marriage
It is never safe to make assumptions about an Aquarius woman, and marriage is no exception.
You may think that Aquarius women prefer unconventional marriages and living arrangements, but many do have rather conventional, legal marriages.
While an Aquarius woman will likely have friends who have all sorts of strange partnerships and living arrangements, in most cases, Aquarian women prefer monogamy for themselves.
Still, if you are thinking of proposing to an Aquarius woman, you probably ought to test out the waters before buying a ring.
The best way to do this is to enter a philosophical or intellectual discussion about marriage. She will usually tell you exactly how she feels about it.
Whether she will agree to a marriage will have nothing to do with how she feels about you, but it will have everything to do with how she feels about the institution of marriage.
Don’t worry. Unless you are truly obvious, she will probably not know that you are asking for personal reasons.
If she is anti-marriage in her philosophy, wait a little and try again. You may find that she has changed her mind over time. She will not admit she has changed her mind.
If you mention it, she will almost certainly deny her earlier beliefs. It is not worth arguing about it, just take it as a green light to pop the question.
It may surprise you to know, but she will very likely appreciate a dramatic proposal, complete with you presenting her with a ring on one knee.
The more interesting and inventive the proposal, the more likely it is that she will say “yes.”
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Aquarian women are interesting companions. They are rarely warm and fuzzy, but they are incredibly steady and loyal. They have a strange mix of interesting, unconventional ideas with a stubborn, conservative streak.
If you are interested in an Aquarius woman, watch for these signs that she likes you in return.
What do you think, does your Aquarius woman show she likes you in these ways?
Tuesday 4th of May 2021
I'm madly in love with an a Aquarius Woman. I'm so ready for her to commit to a relationship even though she says she loves me, tells me every day. Her priority is her children she has 2 and it should be...we've known each other almost a year and we haven't even kissed yet. I cannot even look at another woman. We have a big age difference 45 years.but I love her so much. What t should I do? I am an Aries.
Thursday 29th of April 2021
Lol I think you're right all the way thank you
Friday 26th of March 2021
Omg! So I am libra. My Aquarius drives me crazy. She is forever flirting with me, presenting her body, dressing beautifully, cooking for me, diming lights down, asking me questions like how do I feel about child birth, asking to give her rides to her work. She is starting to say we and us a lot now also. But also we are just friends! As she has said a couple of times. The other day she told me again that we are just friends after a night that I was full of excitement and bouncing with happiness I decided i would text her that I wanted to see her, kinda a booty call but not really cause I have respect, I just was happy and wanted to see her. She never replied until the morning telling me the friend thing again.. we have had a bit of a talk since and I feel there is someone else because she is just ignoring, blanking every moment we have had and telling me it is an illusion in my mind and we are just friends and she has to back off a bit because she think I am in love which I am but like I said to her stupid I’m not In love, I trust but I don’t trust her with my heart.
Basically I tried to escalate at the wrong time and not face to face. Worst thing is because she has blanked everything we shared and told me it was an illusion I cracked and told her to f outta here via text. It really was feeling like a beautiful romance until said that and also told her how I feel. Crap. I’m giving her / us space as of now and focusing on family and work I just don’t have the time to mess about with this anymore or build trust connections with someone else. It’s been 2 days and I’m already writing this ha! I want to tell her everything that is inside me but I’m worried if I do that she will run and hide again or go elsewhere. I’m so confused cause we are not even together and I feel like she’s broken up with me by saying we need a break.
She even has started to tell me where she is going and who it is with name for name. And Asking me what I am doing and who with.
At the start of the year she told me she loved me and someone else she fell out with but that was all random so I let it fly over my head.. it was silly really we didn’t know each other and only just started hanging out one on one.
This woman will sit there in one on one convo, lights dimmed just her and me playing like crazy with her hair, tying it up lol and crossing uncrossing her legs. But we are just friends so I ignore it and send myself home because of respect and confusion. Like I told her a month ago, if she wants she is going to have to come get.
I could write a book or movie with this story. I remember every moment every detail I actually think I am in love again but I just wanted to see and learn more about us with out sex. Plus I need to respect a huge amount because of men in her past mistreating her.
My Mumma bear told me to get rid of her because she is starting to effecting my life but I know if we can break these emotional barriers maybe we can progress there already is huge trust and respect for each other and I did think she was the one until she told me it was all an illusion in my mind.
She also has mental health issues and major anxiety which I respect and try to work with her by building her confidence and inspiring her. Just I can’t live her cause we are friends. Man I man it is so difficult and I had to go and fall for the most amazing yet strange and difficult sign didn’t I ha.
I’m going to get on with my life and play it cool, I desperately want to apologise but I’m not sure that I should? As it may push her away.. stupid feelings I have kept them under control until now.
Apologies as I have just blurted these words out possibly with out any sense 😆
Saturday 3rd of April 2021
Hey Mike, I completely relate to what you wrote. I have been through the same situation with an Aqua Woman.
Dim lights, cooking dinner for me, flaunting her body, crosses uncrosses her legs, hair touching, stuttering, mirroring all of my movements, brushing her breasts against me, touching my knee, arm, staring trance, she blushes when I compliment her, shallow voice, she whispers and leans in, smiling all the time, calls me all the time, texts me all the time (she initiates), and I don't always reply cause I'm busy, today she even asked if we could "schedule" a call cause it's been a week, she's currently abroad but we live in the same city and she keeps asking me if I'll be there if she comes back at this or that date, she sends me beautiful and quirky videos, pictures of what she does and sees, she once handed me her spare key and I asked "why" she said "because I feel it", I still did not accept the keys...Why ?
Because one day I told her I felt such a deep emotional connection with her and she said that I was her friend. I said "thanks for saying the word 'friend' at last" then she said hastily "No no you don't understand ! It means alot to me...and things can evolve...".
Last time we were together in presence (before she went abroad) I was at her place and after a whole evening spent together I went to sleep on the couch around 3:30am. The lights are off, she calls my name, in such a sultry voice.. I reply "hmm ?" she tells me she is going to close the shutters.
At this stage, I am in a state of deep attraction trance body/mind/soul, all I can do is breathe and either act upon what I want or breathe it away. I tell her with my utmost masculine and raw voice "come near me" she stops in her movements and I repeat with the same commanding voice "come near me", she sighs and comes near and sits on a chair infront of me. At this point I can't believe that she actually obeyed. My mouth is dry. I sit upright on the sofa and ask her to come nearer again, she approaches the chair. I find her not near enough so I take the chair on which she's sitting and pull it at the right level of closeness. At this point, There in the dark with a faint lights from the outside, in her living room, her silhouette and me are having the most intense moment of silent volcanic desire.
I manage to tell her two sentences, she is still there, I want her so bad, but I can't make the move for some reason. Then after a while she tells me she is tired and that she should go to sleep.
We've know eachother for about a year and a half and the story is already so long I don't wanna bore you with it even if it's everything BUT boring
Oh and of course, I'm a Libra.
Wednesday 18th of November 2020
Well that was short lived it’s over. 😕
Saturday 27th of March 2021
@Libra78, oh dear sorry to hear. Maybe she will come running back they seem to be that type if you leave them alone. I just told my to f out of here for telling me our relationship was an illusion. Oh dear.
Tuesday 17th of November 2020
Met an Aquarius woman just under a month ago. Things have progressed, at a pace of her choosing. We have one meet up and 2 dates. We have also been sexually intimate, yet I still do t really know where I stand after bei g intimate just as much as I didn’t know where I stood before being intimate.
Yet as read above she texts me, calls me abs we still make plans to meet up and she has even mentioned spending the night in the future. So I guess I should take this as a good sign even though there’s no verbal confirmation that we’re moving towards or are in a relationship.
Either way I see a lot of value and potential in her as a long time partner so I’m looking forward to the journey with her.