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12 Obvious Signs a Virgo Woman Likes You

12 Obvious Signs a Virgo Woman Likes You

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A Virgo woman has caught your eye. What are the signs a Virgo woman likes you in return? Like a Virgo man, a Virgo woman in love can be a hard thing to recognize.

Is a Virgo woman attracted to you? Does she think of you as friend? Is the Virgo woman falling in love with you? Is she ready for a committed relationship?

We will take you from the moment you meet and start dating, to the time you are ready for something far more serious.

Knowing the signs a Virgo woman likes you will help you determine when you have the green light to move the relationship to deeper levels.

The Stages of Relationships in Astrology

Relationships are complicated, and they go through stages. Astrology provides a map through each of the stages.

Just as there are 12 zodiac signs, there are also 12 Houses. These Houses are usually mapped from the Ascendant, or Rising Sign.

If you know your Virgo woman’s date, time, and place of birth, and if she is willing, you can get a full birth chart for free at Astrology Season. This chart will tell you the sign of her Ascendant, and you will get the most accurate information using that sign.

When an astrologer does not have a birthtime, they will use what is known as a Sunrise Chart, which is a map the Houses from the Sun. So, if all you know is her Sun Sign (Virgo in this case), you can still follow this map.

The stages of relationships are as follows:

  • 1st House – Getting to Know You
  • 11th House – Becoming Friends
  • 5th House – A Budding Romance
  • 7th House – Ready to Commit

12 Clear Signs a Virgo Woman Likes You – Stage by Stage

Getting to Know You – Signs a Virgo Woman is Attracted to You

Getting to Know You - Signs a Virgo Woman is Attracted to You

The first stage of any relationship is the 1st House, which is the sign itself, Virgo. This is where you meet and decide whether or not you want to meet again.

These are the signs a Virgo woman is attracted to you at the “getting to know you” stage of the relationship.

1) She will have long, engaging conversations with you

If a Virgo woman likes you, she will take the time to have long and meaningful conversations with you. Virgo women are usually very busy people, so if she starts asking your likes and hobbies, then it’s a sign she’s interested in you. 

If she starts telling humorous stories about the things she sees, it is a sure sign that the Virgo woman is attracted to you. She will make jokes and she will laugh at your jokes. She will want to talk with you a lot.

This sign has a sharp wit and a surprisingly good sense of humor. She notices details no one else does, which makes her a fine observer of people.

2) She will notice everything about you

When a Virgo woman has feelings for you, she will pay attention to everything that you do. She will notice everything from the way you like your coffee to the kind of socks you like to wear.

A Virgo woman has a keen eye for detail, and she notices every little thing. From early on, she will tell you things about you that you did not know about yourself.

3) She will make time for you

A Virgo woman will have a busy life. She will do her best in everything she does, and she is usually indispensable at her job.

A Virgo woman will have more than her share of responsibilities in her social groups and organizations, and it is not uncommon for Virgos to be involved in charity work and other social causes.

When a Virgo woman is attracted to you, however, she will carve time out of her schedule for you.

It might hard for her to be spontaneous, and her time maybe along the lines of having a lunch date every Tuesday and Thursday at 12:45 pm which lasts precisely 50 minutes. You can be sure, however, that the Virgo woman is showing she is attracted to you by setting that time aside just for you.

Becoming Friends – Signs a Virgo Woman is Feeling Close to You

Becoming Friends - Signs a Virgo Woman is Feeling Close to You

In most cases, the next step in a relationship is a feeling of friendship or closeness. In astrology, this stage of a relationship belongs to the 11th House. The 11th House from Virgo is Cancer.

When a Virgo woman is starting to feel close to you, she will become softer and more nurturing. She will worry about you and want to take care of you.

These are the signs that a Virgo woman is moving from being merely attracted to feeling close.

4) She will soften with you

One of the signs a Virgo woman likes you and is starting to feel close to you is that she will soften around you. This sign is usually no-nonsense and business-like.

When a Virgo woman starts to feel close, her hard exterior will soften. She will laugh and smile more.

When a Virgo women is feeling close, her appearance will also soften. She will let down her hair, literally.

Her clothing will become a little more relaxed, a little more feminine. Virgo women usually dress neatly, conservatively, and modestly, but when a Virgo woman feels close, she will become less business-like and more casual.

The nature of your conversations will change. They will start to become more emotional. She will tell you her feelings and her insecurities. She might even cry in front of you.

5) She will worry about you

One of the clearest signs a Virgo woman likes you and is feeling close to you is that she will worry about you.

She will want to make sure you are eating right, exercising regularly, getting enough sleep, and not working too hard.

A Virgo woman truly and deeply cares about the welfare of those close to her, and she will be nervous at any indication that you are not taking care of yourself.

If a Virgo woman starts to nag you, she is showing you how much she cares. She may not say she loves you very often, but she demonstrates her affection by fussing over you.

6) She will cook for you

When a Virgo woman feels close to you, she will want to cook for you. She will have been paying attention to you, and she will know your favorite foods.

Like everything a Virgo does, she will prepare the meal to perfection. The meal will be healthy and nutritious. She will chop the vegetables into precise, even bites. 

A Budding Romance – Signs a Virgo Woman is Falling in Love With You

A Budding Romance - Signs a Virgo Woman is Falling in Love With YouA Budding Romance - Signs a Virgo Woman is Falling in Love With You

As the relationship progresses, if things are going well, the relationship will move from an 11th House close friendship to a 5th House romance.

This is where things get complicated with a Virgo woman. The 5th House from Virgo is Saturn-ruled Capricorn.

As strange as this may seem, a Virgo woman falling in love may go from soft and caring to more distant and business-like. This actually can be a good sign that a Virgo woman likes you in a more romantic way.

It may very well mean that she has moved into a new stage of relationship with you.

7) She may want some space

A Virgo woman falling in love will be surprised by her romantic feelings, and her first impulse will be to run away from them. Virgos are famous for their perfectionism.

A Virgo woman will have her life well ordered. Romantic feelings will disturb her sense of control.

A Virgo woman will often turn her perfectionism in on herself, and she will be self-conscious of all her flaws.

No matter how attractive she is, a modest Virgo woman will have a hard time believing that you return her affections.

When moving from the 11th House with Moon-ruled Cancer to the 5th House with Saturn-ruled Capricorn, all of a Virgo woman’s insecurities may rise to the forefront.

At this point, you might be baffled and think that you have done something wrong. It is also possible that she may say you have.

Virgo women can be quite critical. Virgo is not coy, though, and this sign is not one to refuse to say what is wrong.

If she really wanted to end the relationship, she would do so. If she says she needs space to think, that is exactly what she does need.

So, if the Virgo woman you like suddenly wants distance for no apparent reason, don’t despair. Sudden avoidance is often one of the signs a Virgo woman likes you and is developing deep romantic feelings for you.

If you wait patiently, in time, if she decides to move forward, she will adjust to her feelings and proceed into a new level of relationship with you.

8) She will want to go slowly

This sign is conservative by nature, and a Virgo woman will usually want to take things slowly. Virgos do not date casually, nor do they engage in intimacy lightly.

Even when a Virgo woman has a crush on you, she will have rationally decided exactly how far she will go with you based on the stage of the relationship you are at.

Her caution is a sign that she takes your relationship seriously, and she wants things to go at the right pace.

9) She will want to be useful

At this stage of the relationship, a Virgo woman in love will want to be useful. She will want to help you clean your house.

She will find whatever area of your house that is in disarray, your closet, your sock drawer, your cabinets, your refrigerator, and she will want to put it in order.

Organizing your closet may not seem like the most romantic way to spend a weekend, but if this is what she wants to do, this is one of the sure signs a Virgo woman likes you. She is showing that she cares by trying to be as helpful as she can.

Ready to Commit – Signs A Virgo Woman Likes You Enough For a Long Term Relationship

Ready to Commit - Signs A Virgo Woman Likes You Enough For a Long Term Relationship

The final stage of a relationship belongs to the 7th House, traditionally called the House of Marriage. Any long term stable partnership belongs in this category, whether there is a marriage ceremony or not.

A Virgo woman’s 7th House is Pisces.

When a Virgo woman is becoming serious about you, she will completely change. She has tested you and found you worthy. She is ready to fall head over heels in love.

Here are some of the signs a Virgo woman likes you enough to see you as a long term partner.

10) She will melt with you

When a Virgo woman is ready for a commitment, she will completely melt with you.

At this time, she will lose her strict and careful control, and she will let herself be free and spontaneous.

She will talk freely and openly and laugh openly and expressively. You will see the gentleness in her that you did not see in the previous stages. She will be demonstrative, and even romantic.

11) She will ask your advice

Virgos are keenly analytical and aware of details no one else sees. For this reason, a Virgo woman usually knows better than most people the best way to do most things in her sphere.

She is often quietly (or not so quietly) critical of what she sees as the sloppiness of others, so she will rarely ask anyone for advice.

When a Virgo woman is serious about you, however, she will think very highly of you, and she will have great respect for you and your thoughts and opinions.

She may even start to ask you for help. When this happens it is one of the sure signs a Virgo woman likes you very much and is seeing you as a partner for the long term.

12) She will idolize you

When a Virgo woman is deeply in love, she will put you on a pedestal. You will be able to do no wrong in her eyes. The faults that she keenly noticed before will become charming quirks in her eyes.

When a Virgo woman is ready to commit, she will fantasize about you and your relationship.

The down to earth Virgo will allow herself fairy tale dreams of your life together. You will become her Knight in Shining Armor.

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Developing a relationship with a Virgo woman can be a long journey. The signs a Virgo woman likes you can be confusing and complex.

At the end of the journey, however, she will accept you as her Knight in Shining Armor and want to live happily ever after with you.

Watch for these signs a Virgo woman likes you at each of these stages along the way.

What do you think, does your Virgo woman show she likes you in these ways?


Sunday 14th of January 2024

Notice that after dating 2 Virgo's. And went through all stages. I'm on the 3rd virgo now 😂I'm a Libra but my north node is virgo.I get on great with Virgo's. Spot on


Monday 15th of May 2023

There's a Virgo woman that works at a store I shop at I'm a cancer I can't figure out if she likes me and I'm not how to tell or approach her I told her I liked s certain way she styled her hair but I haven't told how should I go about asking her out


Friday 7th of April 2023

I never log into these websites to make a comment but yeah I am a Virgo and this is me exactly. I am shocked someone could put it so well into words. Well done!


Saturday 18th of March 2023

I’m a Scorpio man happily with a Virgo woman she’s my queen I spoil her daily. In the 3 years it took to get to that point I learned all this along the way while staying celibate getting to know her, trust her and building an emotional connection with her. It was very much worth the journey. It’s about loving her unconditionally and patiently while being the provider & protector we men were meant to be so she feels safe & secure. She was worth fighting and waiting for. If you’re in it with selfish motives choose another sign, you’ll only frustrate yourself.


Saturday 30th of October 2021

Hi. Hope someone still reads this and help me understand or maybe atleast give me some advice. I am a Gemini man and I am inloved with a Virgo woman. I know, Geminis are frowned upon for a Virgo, but hear me out please. I met her in person June this year. but we been chatting before that. We started as just acquaintances and I think our relationship grew deeper. Throughout the months, we became friends. We talk everyday. We talked about family, about our job, about things we want to do together, etc. We saw each other several times already. Sometimes, with other friends, sometimes just the two of us. I do my best to be there with her when she is feeling down or sad. I do my best to be there when she celebrates success. Im short of saying I love you to her. Im not sure if ive done enough. But I think she knows that I have feelings for her. I could be being dramatic here but everytime I feel like she is not into me, we will get into a conversation or something will happen that will make me reject that idea. I suppose that’s the reason im on this page now. Im to look for signs. Reading the signs above, I think we are, or I am at number 7. As I mentioned, we talk everyday. Then I feel like she suddenly grew cold towards me. She would still respond to my chats, atleast some of them. To some of my chats, no reaction. Maybe she’s just really busy, I don’t know. This past 2 weeks, she rejected me 2x out of 3 when I asked her out. The recent was just yesterday when I asked her to have lunch with me. I felt like, when she declined my invite yesterday, she just does not want to see me. We still saw each last night though, on a dinner with friends. I think we were casual, but then, I may not be the best person to read the situation in the room. One friend would tease us or maybe just me occasionally, during that event. And not sure if this is relevant, early this week, she got into an argument with some of our friends, minor argument only (they are ok now). and she was talking to me with her emotions. I think that’s the first time we talked like that again since I felt, or I think I felt her coldness. Then the next day, back to the snow. Apologies if I am reading too much to this and being dramatic. Based on the things mentioned here as well as the advices given by Virgo persons, Iam staying quiet. Im stopping myself from sending her direct messages for several reasons: 1. Im afraid of being ignored: 2. Im giving her some space as what the article here is suggesting: and 3, im super scared that I would read her response or lack thereof as a rejection and it will break my heart. I missed her so much and I am in pain… please, hopefully someone could help me understand. Thank you in advance.


Sunday 12th of December 2021

@IamAGemini, hey I'm a Gemini also interested in a virgo woman. We have this odd friendship. She wanted to date but I was still involved with my ex and ive sorted that out now I want to date but she's made it clear she doesnt want to so we're just friends for now but we still sleep together and kiss and go on dates and hold hands and have sleep overs and she messages me every single day throughout the day we text all day and night intermittently. I dont know if shes using me for attention or if she has any sort of feelings.

My advice to you is give it 3 days and then text her asking her whats up and to be clear with you where ya'll stand. Whenever I've asked mine something directly she responds.