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12 Obvious Signs a Virgo Man Likes You

12 Obvious Signs a Virgo Man Likes You

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A Virgo man in love can be a hard thing to recognize as he demonstrates affection in his own way. An unexpected rebel of sorts, this zodiac sign, will want to show he likes someone through subtle forms of romance.

Just like Virgo woman, known for his impeccable attention to detail and ability to know exactly what someone needs, this star sign makes for an amazing partner in love.

The Virgo man is very genuine; using a practical approach to life, he will work diligently to win your heart.

If you have been wondering if the Virgo man in your life is starting to develop romantic feelings for you read on so you can recognize the 12 obvious signs a Virgo man likes you!

12 clear signs a Virgo man likes you

1. He will loosen up when he is around you

When a Virgo man likes you, he will relax and loosen up around you.He will smile a lot more than he is typically known for and will appear to work a room with more ease.

This zodiac sign is known for being somewhat uptight at times and a little apprehensive when it comes to letting loose. When a Virgo man likes someone though he relaxes around them. 

Knowing his crush is present gives this sign an added boost of confidence. The Virgo man will make every effort to be lively when in your presence.

A sense of humor and other fun qualities this star sign possess will come out to play. 

He really wants to impress you and knows that a little positivity can go a long way in getting a girl’s attention.

2. He will surprise you with little romantic gestures 

A Virgo man will want to give you mini surprises when he loves you.

The zodiac sign of Virgo is known for their sweet tooth and taste for treats. He will want to share these little indulgences with you when he is crushing.

xpect mini boxes of chocolates and cupcakes instead of flowers with this zodiac sign. 

A Virgo man wants to make sure the romantic gifts he showers you with are useful and will not go to waste. Giving you something you can eat and not just admire is very Virgo in this case!

He will also show his growing affection by calling you “sweetie” and “dear.” As a small romantic gesture the Virgo man will want to show you he is comfortable around you by using pet names.

Being adept with words and verbal skills, this star sign will show his affection by the sweet way he speaks to you. 

3. He will ask you out for a romantic lunch date

When a Virgo man has feelings for you, he will ask you out on a romantic lunch date. He will be sure to take you somewhere unique and of course will have everything planned out just so.

Expect to be whisked off to see an interesting art exhibit before grabbing lunch in the museum’s cafe.

This zodiac sign typically has a passion for fine art and music that he will want to share with you. 

Your Virgo man will not tell you this is a date, but it most certainly is. He will assume that because he asked you out to lunch a certain sense of exclusivity is implied and that this is a special occasion.

Just because this date is happening during the day does not mean it will lack romance whatsoever. A Virgo man can be extremely charming when he wants to be.

4. He will analyze everything you do

Known for their impeccable attention to the small things the Virgo man will analyze everything you do when he is into you.

A Virgo man will of course find you fascinating as the object of his budding affection and will want to break down everything you do and say.

This star sign loves long conversations and is turned on by how well he connects with someone mentally.

He will want to know what books you read, who your favorite artists are, and what music you listen to. 

He will notice the little things you do like how you brush your hair behind your ear or the dimples you have when you smile. These subtle details about yourself are what attracts the Virgo man to you and he is paying attention! 

In his analysis of everything you do he will want to capture the moment in fine detail.

You may catch him taking a picture of you off guard when he catches you smiling. Or you may find your Virgo man admiring you from afar.

When your Virgo man is enamored with you he will be sure to show a picture of you off to his friends, family, and colleagues.

This zodiac sign shows he likes you by noticing all of the small things. You could say, he knows you better than you know yourself.

Virgo Man Taking a Selfie

5. He will want to talk on the phone a lot 

The zodiac sign of Virgo is known for his excellent ability to communicate as he is ruled by the planet associated with communication, Mercury.

A Virgo knows how information can get lost in translation and his preference will not be to send an e-mail or a text but to have a good old fashioned phone call instead.

One of the ways to tell if a Virgo man is into you is if he calls you on the phone to make plans or check-in.

A Virgo man has no issue with sharing his deepest thoughts and fantasies through this medium.

He will most likely call you when he has a break from work so he can fill you in on his day.

He will say cute things such as he just wanted to hear your voice or that he misses you. This is a sure sign he is falling for you. A Virgo man in love will not be able to help but over-communicate with his love interest in this way.  

6. He will think very highly of you

Known for their perfectionism it typically takes a lot to impress this zodiac sign.

One of the signs a Virgo man likes you is when he thinks very highly of you. He will make sure to mention you and your accomplishments every chance he gets.

He will hold you in high esteem and you really can do no wrong in his eyes. As we mention in our guide to getting a Virgo man to miss you, he will be really attracted to gals who have a lot going on or a unique profession. 

This star sign likes to live vicariously through others so your interests, talents, and activities will be a high priority of fascination for him.

A Virgo man wants to be with someone that pushes his boundaries a bit so he can push himself out of his strict comfort zone.

This will excite your Virgo man and keep you on the pedestal he has put you on! Showing enthusiasm is a great way to keep a Virgo man interested

7. He will want commitment 

What does a Virgo man look for in a woman? When a Virgo man likes someone he will want exclusivity from the get-go.

Not known for playing the field this sign dates one lady at a time so he can give her his undivided attention and devotion. When a Virgo man likes someone he will hold them in very high regard. 

Through this lens of perfection, he will also expect that you are not sharing yourself romantically with anyone else!

Due to the fact that a Virgo man gives so much of himself when in love he will want this same respect in turn. Expect the first date to mark exclusivity for him as you were carefully selected by this zodiac sign. 

He will want serious commitment from you as a Virgo man takes his engagements with great sincerity. Once he has set eyes on you he will be determined to get you to commit to him.

It is not about the chase for the Virgo, instead, extreme loyalty can be very sexy to this sign.

8. He will be extremely helpful and attentive 

One of the main Virgo traits is how extremely hardworking and dedicated they are to helping others.

Another of the signs a Virgo man likes you is when he goes out of his way to assist you with anything you need. If your car breaks down, your Virgo man will be there to give you a lift. If you need a place to crash for the night, your Virgo man will lend you his couch.

He will also want to help you emotionally as he has an incredibly sensitive side. He will be a great listener and advice giver! Count on having a shoulder to lean on when you need it with this helpful star sign. 

The zodiac sign of Virgo is associated with service and a Virgo man in love will want nothing more than to give you attentive love and care.

With the anticipation of your every need, your Virgo wants to make sure he is meeting your expectations.

He notices the details that others miss so he can win you over with this subtle approach to love. 

Virgo Man Helping

9. He will always put your happiness first

Being a zodiac sign that is not happy until everyone else around him is happy and settled he will always put your happiness first when he likes you.

A Virgo man is very concerned with his surroundings and feeling comfortable.

As an earth sign, he will be focused on the day to day and therefore, attentive to all of your physical needs. 

Seeing you smile and pleasured is a number one turn on for the Virgo man! Of all the signs he may have the most genuine “knight in shining armor” type of qualities.

Being very polite and respectful, a Virgo man is the most likely zodiac sign who will hold the door open for you and make a good impression with your family.

He is truly willing to go the extra mile to for your fulfillment. 

Since knowing you are happy makes him happy it takes little effort on your part!

10. He will want to exercise together 

Very focused on health and wellness this star sign will most likely be into daily exercise and hitting the gym.

One of the signs a Virgo man has a crush on you is when he asks to sync up your workout routines.

Think an early morning run in the park and then healthy fruit smoothies after at his favorite juice bar. This is a highly romantic gesture coming from this star sign as he is allowing you into his private daily routines! 

If your Virgo man is not super into exercise he will share his daily routines with you in another way. He will want to go grocery shopping together, cook together, or maybe even get some laundry done together.

Not the most romantic activities for sure, but when a Virgo man likes you he will find a way to make the most mundane task an exciting romantic adventure.

11. He will love your pets 

As the zodiac sign associated with house pets your Virgo man will be really into your furry friends when he likes you. He will most likely have a cat or dog himself as well.

This zodiac sign is associated with having great concern for the environment and his love of animals is a big part of that!

Often, the Virgo zodiac sign can conjure up pictures of a man sorting his recycling and cleaning up the neighborhood park in his spare time.

He will of course want you there with him by his side for these outdoor planet loving activities. You can find your Virgo man at the dog park on the weekends. 

You can find your Virgo man offering to take your dog out for a walk or petting your kitties as a sign that he likes you.

This star sign will make a concerted effort to connect with you over your family pets and will fill in as foster parent to your fur babies with no issue!

Virgo Men Love Having Pets

12. He will be shy about touching you 

At first a Virgo man will take his time when it comes to being physical with you when he really likes you.

He will be a bit nervous to make this first move and will want to make sure he is being ultra respectful of your personal space no matter how much he wants it!

When a Virgo man starts to like you he will be mortified if he accidentally brushes up against you or gets to close too soon. 

He will resist most all physical contact until he has commitment from you. The Virgo man does not want to give himself away so easily and does maintain this aspect of his astrology sign’s symbol of the virgin.

Once he moves past his shyness about touching you though, it will be a completely different story!

Be prepared for your Virgo man to be an amazing lover once he feels comfortable being physical with you.

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The Virgo man can be a mysterious creature.

Once he has decided he likes someone he is committed and will do everything in his power to win her over, including going out of his comfort zone to land the gal! Which he will be willing to do for the right person!

This zodiac sign is known for being extremely dedicated when in love and will build up slowly to a lasting romance.

Watch out for these signs that a Virgo man likes you. What do you think, does your Virgo man show you he likes you in these ways?


Thursday 11th of March 2021

im a scorpio confused with a virgo,

hes a really outgoing funny person and is like friends with everyone especially the girls ugg, well we have swim practice together and the other day when i went for my water bottle next to him he move it away infront of him multiple times like he was teasing me. then he did it again today and i also wanted the spot closest to the laneline but he wouldnt give it to me so i kinda pushed/moved him away as like a friendly guesture if yk what i mean. idk if that was a mistake or not. also im like the only girl around his age there. Can someone tell we watsup?


Saturday 16th of January 2021

I'm a Capricorn woman who just started seeing a Virgo man. I feel like Virgo is a great match for me. I was with a Virgo man when I was very young and always felt like he didn't love me. We were together for 5 years and when I left him, it broke his heart. I was surprised to find out how much he had cared for me. I am much older now and feel I can relate better now. First thing this new guy did was take me out for dinner, we talked for 3 hours, he texted me that he really liked spending time with me and then ghosted me for 3 days! It was so confusing but made me want him more. I am playing it cool and backing off for a bit but we have been spending more time together. I had forgotten how frustrating a Virgo man can be, but I may just fall for him in time. All the comments here are so helpful.


Tuesday 27th of October 2020

If you happen to be the insecure type, you probably won't go far with a Virgo. This man needs his space (and being a Sagittarius, I can relate!) Once there's a TRUE friendship established and a REAL mutual trust, you won't have to question whether or not he likes you, you'll know. Pay attention and be patient- he's absolutely worth it!!


Monday 10th of August 2020

So I've had a crush on a Virgo man♍ (20 yrs old) and we have been talking since last June and it's August now. So he has quite a heart breaking past and me being a Taurean woman♉ (21yrs old) with no experience on relationships in general, yes I'm single since birth, am really really reallyyyy into on how he respects women, on his beliefs, how he cares for his family and how grounded he is. I know that Virgo men don't easily give their attention to just anyone, I just hope that I'll be different from the rest u know? And i hope he sees that 😥 HI TO MY FELLOW TAUREAN WOMEN ♉ OUT THERE! Being hopelessly romantic and all 💖🤦‍♀️ love from the Philippines 🇵🇭🇵🇭

Mr. D

Monday 17th of August 2020

He will for sure, as he is watching. just continue to be there and love on him, If he ghosts then just know he is just recharging. Socialising takes alot out of us Virgos and we pull back to reconnect to us.


Saturday 20th of June 2020

Im a Pisces woman and im falling for a virgo man, he’s definitely a confusing sign for me, one minute he’s texting me throught the day, and the next sometimes i dont hear from him (only in the morning and thats it) im kinda just going with the flow and remaining patient and hoping for the best.


Monday 27th of July 2020

I am in the same boat, pisces woman into a virgo man. So far he is pretty much what I have read about, and I am very impressed. With online dating, we are far apart, so have not met yet, but he is the most knight in shining armor type of man so far! I think after this I might onmy be into Virgo men, the good ones :)