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As charming and pleasant as Libra women can be, this is a particularly difficult sign to decipher in matters of the heart. Libra women have perfected indirect communication to an art form.
How do you know if a Libra woman has a crush on you or if she is just being polite? Read on to learn the signs a Libra woman likes you.
The Stages of Relationships in Astrology
To navigate the complicated communication style of a Libra woman in love, it will be useful to understand the stages of relationships in astrology.
Relationships are complicated, and people change as they grow and develop. This change follows a logical progression, following what is known in astrology as the Houses.
The first stage of a relationship, or the stage you are getting to know each other is the 1st House. As you are starting to become friends and get more comfortable with each other, you enter into an 11th House relationship.
Intimate and romantic relationships are the province of the 5th House. Marriages and committed long-term partnership belong to the 7th House.
To get the best results from this series, you should use the Ascendant or Rising Sign. For this you will need the date, time, and place of her birth. With this you can go to Astrology Season to get a free birth chart, which will tell you the sign of her Ascendant.
If you do not know her birth information, it is just fine to go by her Sun Sign. The information will still apply.
11 Clear Signs a Libra Woman Likes You – Stage by Stage
Getting to Know You – Signs a Libra Woman is Attracted to You
The first stage of a relationship, any relationship, is the 1st House, which is the sign itself, in this case, Libra. You have just met or you are going on your first few dates.
This is a crucial time in a relationship, because it will determine whether you will meet again. This is the stage that is the most difficult with a Libra women, because she will generally say the same things whether she likes you or not.
What is important at this stage is not what she says, but what she does.
Below are the early signs a Libra woman likes you and is attracted to you. Also see the clear signs a Libra man likes you.
1) She will give you her real telephone number
A Libra woman will rarely refuse any request outright, especially not from someone she does not know very well.
Libra women are adept at agreeing with you, and then doing exactly what they want to do anyway.
So, if you ask a Libra woman for her phone number, she will be unlikely to say no. That does not mean she will actually give it to you.
You may find that somehow the topic of conversation has changed and ends with you never actually getting her number. She may give you what looks like her number with a few numbers conveniently missing or illegible. She may give you an out and out false number.
The key to understanding a Libra woman, especially in the early stages, is that in her eyes harmony is far, far more important than honesty. Being rude is a much greater crime to her than lying.
In the rare event that she does not like you but still gives you her number, she will never answer the phone when you call.
So, if she gives you her real telephone number, and she actually answers the phone when you call, this is one of the sure signs a Libra woman likes you and is attracted to you.
2) Her smile will be genuine
A Libra woman will almost always be pleasant with people who she does not know well. She will smile a lot, and she is skilled at the art of conversation.
For this reason, if you want to date a Libra woman, it will be a good idea to know a genuine smile from a fake one. Usually, when a person is really smiling, she will close her eyes a bit, and you will see crow’s feet outside the eyes. If you see her bottom teeth, is usually a fake smile.
Becoming Friends – Signs a Libra Woman is Feeling Comfortable Around You
The next stage of a relationship is where you are start to develop a friendship. This stage is the 11th House. The 11th House from Libra is Sun-ruled Leo. This is where Libra women shine!
When a Libra woman starts to feel comfortable around you, her careful courtesy will give way to artistry and drama. She will become playful and vivacious.
Here are the signs a Libra woman likes you and is feeling comfortable around you.
3) Her appearance will be stunning
A Libra woman will always dress well, at least in public. In the early stages of a relationship, her clothing and make-up will be perfect for the occasion, not too formal, not too casual.
She will look very nice, but not nice enough to outshine others or to stand out. When she becomes comfortable with you, however, she will show off her natural artistic ability in many ways, including in her appearance.
So, if a Libra woman you are dating shows up looking stunningly gorgeous, it is a clear sign that she is warming up to you.
4) She will flirt shamelessly
Libra women love social interaction, and when they start to open up, they can not help but flirt. There is a special artistry to flirtation, and Libras are extraordinarily gifted in it.
She will, of course, flirt with you, but if you are out with friends, particularly male friends, she might flirt with them too. This may make you feel jealous and insecure, but it is really not something to worry about. Here is why.
When a Libra woman flirts with you or around you, it is because she is feeling comfortable enough around you to let out her playful side.
If you confronted her about flirting with others, she would probably deny it. She likely would not realize or believe she was doing it, because of course, if she was flirting with someone else with you there, it would be incredibly rude. She probably had no idea of just how flirtatious she was being and thought she was just having fun.
The other reason not to worry is that the fact that she continues to date you is one of the best signs a Libra woman likes you.
A Libra woman rarely, if ever, does anything she truly does not want to do. Libra is a cardinal sign. Cardinal signs are the leaders of the zodiac. They know what they want and what they don’t, and they go after what they want and avoid what they don’t want.
For all of Libra’s courtesy and evasiveness, if she did not want to be with you, or if she really wanted to be with someone else, she would not be with you. Period.
5) She will plan a romantic dinner for you
When a Libra woman decides to invite you to her house and cook for you, it will be an incredible, romantic experience. Dinner will be a chance for her to show you her artistry. She may or may not actually cook the dinner herself, but it will be beautiful to look at.
Being an air sign, a Libra woman may pay more attention to the appearance of the food than to its taste, however. Still, dinner will be quite an extravagance that you will not soon forget.
So, if she treats you to an amazingly romantic dinner at her house, this is one of the clear signs a Libra woman likes you.
Budding Romance – A Libra Woman is Falling in Love With You
It is a well-known phenomenon that a relationship will dramatically change when it moves from friendship to something more. There is an astrological reason for this.
The reason is that friendship belongs to the 11th House and romance belongs to the 5th. The 5th House is opposite the 11th, and so the sign of the 5th House is always the opposite of the 11th. The 5th House from Libra is Aquarius, the opposite sign to Leo.
When a Libra woman falls in love with you, she will start to become much more serious and may seem to have grown suddenly aloof. This is a good sign, though, as it means she is starting to fall in love.
Libra women do not take love lightly. Here are the signs that your friendship is becoming something more.
6) She will tell you what she thinks
Libra is an air sign, and Libra women think about a lot of things. Skilled in the art of conversation, a Libra woman will have listened to many people and been exposed to many different views.
If a Libra woman likes you, she will open up and share her deepest thoughts with you. Rather than staying shy, she will have no problems offering her opinion and asking for yours in return, even about small day to day things.
Her thoughts and opinions are likely to be nuanced and perhaps even controversial. She can see all sides of any issue.
It is not that Libra woman do not have opinions, it is just that they do not share them often. Libra women are positively allergic to conflict, so they do not risk saying anything that might cause controversy.
7) She will dress down in front of you
One of the signs a Libra woman likes you and is entering a new phase in your relationship is that she will let you see her when her appearance is not perfect.
Libra woman take a lot of pride and put a lot of care into their appearance, so if she relaxes and is willing to be with you when she is not dressed up, she is starting to really fall for you.
8) She will shock you
A Libra woman falling in love will show a side to her that you never thought existed. She may say something truly unconventional or want to experiment in ways you would have never imagined.
Sharing her shocking thoughts and ideas is one of the signs a Libra woman likes you very much.
Ready to Commit – Signs a Libra Woman Likes You Enough for a Long Term Relationship
Earlier we said Libra was a cardinal sign, and that despite appearances, a Libra woman does what she wants and does not do what she does not want.
When she is ready to commit, though, you will see this most clearly. The 7th House from Libra is Aries!
9) She will tell you want she wants
The Holy Grail in a relationship with a Libra woman is when she will tell you directly what she wants. She has hinted at what she wanted all along, and sometimes you may have worked it out and sometimes you may not have.
When a Libra woman is ready to commit, however, she will no longer leave it to chance. If you are not understanding her hints, she will begin telling you directly.
10) She will argue with you
We have said before that Libra women are allergic to conflict. They are skilled at avoiding arguments and know how to agree pleasantly and do what they want anyway.
If a Libra woman loves you, she will get over her distaste of conflict to work on or even fight for your relationship if something is wrong.
It is highly likely that you will not have your first argument with a Libra woman until very late into your relationship, but when it happens, you can be sure that she has begun to care for you deeply.
11) She will take control
A Libra woman settling down in a long term relationship is a force of nature. Libra women leave nothing to chance when it comes to commitment. She has always indirectly managed your relationship at some level.
If she overtly takes charge, however, it is certain that a Libra woman likes you and wants to be with you for a very long time.
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Libra women are lovely and charming, but they can be quite confusing. They value harmony and courtesy and they hate conflict, and their communication style can be an enigma.
Pay attention to these signs and signals she gives as your relationship deepens through the various stages.
What do you think, does your Libra woman show she likes you in these ways?
Monday 7th of December 2020
So here are my thoughts, speaking as an Aries man.
I recently met a woman who as it turns out is a Libra and I find her to be utterly captivating in every sense of the word. Her eyes, her smile, her conversation, the way she carries herself - all beautiful and mesmerizing. I've only met one other woman in my life who had this effect on me and she was, you guessed it, a Libra. After several weeks I finally summoned the courage to approach her and ask her out. She lit up and said yes. I was floating for days.
I had to wait 2 weeks for our first date, and believe me as an Aries it was the longest 2 weeks of my life. We finally went out last Saturday. I was captivated the entire 4 hours we spent talking. I didn't want it to end. Her outfit was stunning, she flirted, she started to open up. Not bad for date #1. My defenses were smashed to pieces the moment I saw her walking up to the table. We had a great first date (just talking) and at the end she mentioned (first) that she is looking forward to the next time. I'll have to wait another week and a half or two. We're both busy, her more than I. Waiting is going to suck.
I am NOT normally turned to mush like this. She owns the room whenever she walks in. That smile... jesus.
Since this is the very early stage of what I hope develops into something greater, we don't talk much yet. I mean, I'm usually the one texting or calling her and occasionally it'll take a day, sometimes two, before I get a response. But I do get responses and they're usually positive. I've done a lot of reading about Libras and understand it's totally normal for them to keep their options open until they're ready to go further. I don't necessarily like it, Aries and all, but I understand. She's worth the wait. It drives me crazy because I'm one to charge toward something I want, but obviously that will not work with her so I remain patient. It's difficult. The question I keep rattling around my head is how interested she really is. Libras are truly a different breed. She's proceeding with zero sense of urgency; totally nonchalant. I get that it's Libra style to do so at first. I guess I'm just not used to it. But the few times we've been together, we click so well it's uncanny.
I guess I just need to keep being patient. Sigh. Very hard for an Aries.
Thursday 5th of November 2020
Hey Jo, my thoughts exactly. Recently I left my Libra lovely to get her work finished on the laptop because I tried 'getting busy' with her and she replied, "Let me get this work done then you can get busy as much as you want." Of course I couldn't wait because I find her hot and sexy sexy sexy. So, we gets to the bedroom - and as we Pisces men know, we can be the gentle lover and also the caring yet beastly monster when it comes to bedroom antics. But who's restricting that to the bedroom? Anyway, we start 'canoodling' and then she threw a random work-related question at me. Pfff, the moment died and although I entertained her small talk was left in the lurch so I rolled over and went to sleep knowing she was way to tired to even think straight. Well, Of course it was very difficult to go to sleep and ended up tossing and turning all night. No pun intended.
But even more closer to your comment here with which I concur totally. I want her to be more sexually proactive. On the odd occasion she'd make a pass straight for my, err, you know, then just pull away and leave me hanging, literally. That's most frustrating indeed.
I did my research as to her clothing size, bought some sexy negligee, wore it once. I left it hanging on the back of the bedroom door for months and it hasn't been touched. She's talked about putting on a show and/ or treating me to some fun in various ways but it's only been lip service.
I asked if she wanted me to talk dirty and she said yes but I think I let the SUPER BEAST out and she became somewhat 'frightened' I think. That session didn't make it past first base - however on reflection it is possibly because of a negative, abusive and toxic previous relationship.
She really is a lovely lady. I adore her and love her dearly.
Friday 11th of September 2020
I’m an Aries male and loving 🥰 my Libra lady friend. It’s a long distance relationship. We began communicating in social media about 1 year ago. Just met physically 3 weeks ago. I traveled from the USA to Ecuador just to meet her and have a few dates with her, yes Libra’s are totally worth it. It is very difficult to acquire a Libra woman’s love but once they allow it, it is magical. Not boy friend girl friend status yet but I once was married to a Libra woman for 16 years. So any male presently seeking or on stand by for their Libra lady love, just be patient they will make it worth the wait.
Sunday 4th of October 2020
Thanks big brother I alsoo love a libra woman who's very introvert but she gives stares at me don't how am I gonna tell her that I love her. Please help if you have any ideas.
Monday 7th of September 2020
I'm a Pisces sun, Aquarius Moon (m 25) currently dating a Libra sun, Scorpio Moon(f 31). We hit the one-month milestone tomorrow! She invited me to her place on date 3 and we made love then. I got my first argument with her half a month ago but now we are fine. Recently, I started drove her to work and spend more time with her. I have met some of her relatives and friends, but not the close ones. She shows signs of steps 3&4: dressing down in front of me, inviting me to sleepovers, arguing with me very often, and be honest about not liking my poems (she said she lied about liking them when we first met to please me). Things seem fine, right? Here are the confusing things: she often tells me that she: a) doesn't like me or doesn't know what she really wants b) that we should be friends or friends with benefit Are those how she's testing me? Because I often respond that I have feelings for her and want to be her boyfriend. c) She sometimes tells me that love should lead to marriage, but when I agree with it, she said she was not looking for a husband. I'm a Pisces and these things are really confusing to me.
Saturday 26th of September 2020
It is not confusing. She simply don't like u and she don't want to be rude. Maybe she sees you as a close friend and don't want to ruin this relationship.
Sunday 30th of August 2020
I have a question I'm talking to a Libra on line we would just chat the we started to flirt, and now it's getting more serious with our conversations she says she tells more than her close friends. Then the big one comes out she tells me she has stopped sleeping in the room with her Husband because of me. She made it seem like she was divorced she sends pictures of her son to me and several of her self almost every day.