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How to Attract, Seduce, and Win a Sagittarius Man

How to Attract, Seduce, and Win a Sagittarius Man

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Of all of the signs of the zodiac, a Sagittarius man may be the most difficult to attract, seduce, or win. More than anything else, a Sagittarius man desires freedom. Relationships, as a general rule, tend to place restrictions on one’s freedom.

Because of this, Sagittarius men are notoriously shy of relationships, especially ones that could lead to a commitment. If you are to attract, seduce, or win a Sagittarius man, you must convince him that life is more interesting with you than without you. You must also assure him that he will have room to roam and explore.

The Astrology of Seduction and Attraction

Most popular astrology articles, including this one, focus on a person’s Sun Sign. A person’s Sun Sign is the location in the sky that the Sun was in when they were born. One can generally know their Sun Sign so long as they know their birthdate.

The Sun is a very important part of your overall makeup, so most people will exhibit at least some traits of their Sun Sign.

Even so, there is much more to a person than their Sun Sign. Each person has a unique birth chart, which is a map of where all of the planets were in the sky at the moment of their first breath.

You can get your birth chart by consulting with an astrologer. You can also get a free birth chart calculation along with a computerized interpretation on many sites, including Astrology Season.

When it comes to seduction and attraction, there are some other factors other than your Sun Sign that play important roles. One of these factors is your Ascendant, which is the sign that was rising in the East when you were born. So, in addition to being accurate for a man with a Sagittarius Sun Sign, this article will also work for a man with a Sagittarius Ascendant.

Venus also plays a crucial role in attraction and seduction, so this article is also relevant for a man whose Venus is in Sagittarius. Also, Venus is never more than two signs away from the Sun, so if his Sun Sign is in Sagittarius, there is a good chance that his Venus is there as well.

Other possible Venus placements for a man with his Sun in Sagittarius are Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, or Aquarius.

Profile of a Sagittarius Man and His Woman

Profile of a Sagittarius Man and His Woman

As discussed before, it is quite difficult to attract, seduce, or win a Sagittarius man. The reason for this lies in his very nature.

Sagittarius is a Mutable Sign, and like all Mutable Signs, he lives in the moment. For him, life is an adventure, and he is forever following the next path. He almost never plans his journeys, but instead prefers to explore uncharted territory.

While he does enjoy the company of others, he does not want to be held down. For this reason, he wants a woman who is just as bold and adventurous as he is. He values courage and directness in a partner.

A Sagittarius man needs a partner who is more of a traveling companion than a wife, who can not only keep up with him but who is also quite capable of forging new paths on her own.

How to Attract a Sagittarius Man

Now that we have an idea of what he is like and the type of woman he is seeking, let us explore how to attract a Sagittarius man.

1) Be direct

You will never attract a Sagittarius man by being coy. There is nothing subtle about him, and he rarely picks up on subtlety from others. It is quite common for him to have absolutely no idea when women are flirting with him.

If you find him attractive, you will need to tell him…directly and in no uncertain terms. You must also tell him what you want from him.

He may or may not respond the way you like. He will candidly and bluntly tell you what he wants and how he feels about you. A Sagittarius man is not known for tact or diplomacy. The advantage of this is that you will always know what he thinks and how he feels.

Given the chance of rejection, it may seem risky to be so open. However, it is really the only way to proceed. If you do not tell him what you feel, he will never know and you will never be able to attract him.

2) Be bold

How to Attract a Sagittarius Man - Be Bold

Some men like shy and demure women. A Sagittarius man is not one of them. Sagittarius is lively and is not plagued by insecurities. Indeed, he is far more likely to suffer from over-confidence than under-confidence.

While a Sagittarius man has a pleasant temperament and is usually easy-going, his own lack of insecurities makes it hard for him to understand or be patient with those of others.

So, if you want to attract a Sagittarius man, it is important to summon up all of your bravery and be outgoing and courageous in his presence. Do not worry about going too far in that direction. It is actually fine to brag about your accomplishments around him.

Indeed, you can even go so far as to exaggerate. He often does. A Sagittarius man enjoys a good story, and he will not look too closely at the details of yours for accuracy or plausibility.

3) Be self-sufficient

A Sagittarius man desires his freedom above all else. This means that at every step along the way in your relationship, you will have to convince him that you will not tie him down. For this reason, it is important that you are able to take care of yourself.

A Sagittarius man does enjoy pontificating and giving advice, however. This may lead you to believe that you can open up to him about your troubles and lean on him for emotional support.

Yet, this is rather risky with a Sagittarius man. He wants to be able to give you good advice which fixes your difficulties immediately. He does not want to be there to help you through a long emotional process.

This means that if you want a Sagittarius man, you will need other people that you can go to for emotional support other than him. On the other hand, he is not prone to jealousy, so he will not get in the way of your other friendships.

How to Seduce a Sagittarius Man

Once you have gotten the attention of a Sagittarius man, you may start wondering how to seduce him. Read on for tips on how to do this.

1) Take charge

A Sagittarius man finds a strong woman irresistible. Sagittarius does not usually have preconceived ideas about how the genders are supposed to behave, and he is generally not all that interested in being chivalrous.

He wants a woman who is perfectly capable of taking care of herself and who knows what she wants.

Also, while a Sagittarius man is adventurous and courageous, being a Mutable Sign, he rarely takes the initiative in anything. Mutable Signs take each moment as it comes and they do not plan or think ahead. This means that if you want him, you will have to make the first move.

If you take the lead, he will follow, and he will happily enjoy whatever you have to offer.

2) Don’t expect a commitment

One of the surest ways to scare off a Sagittarius man is to make any mention of commitment. He lives moment to moment, and he wants to always keep the future open to possibilities. If you want to seduce a Sagittarius man, you must assure him that there are no strings attached.

There are some signs for whom physical intimacy is always accompanied by emotional attachment. This is not the case for a Sagittarius man. He does not form emotional attachments quickly or easily.

If you are likely to get emotionally involved after sex, you may want to carefully consider whether you really want to go to bed with a Sagittarius man. He may very well break your heart if you are not careful.

A Sagittarius man will not make promises to you, and he will be upfront about what he is looking for and what he is not. Yet, there can be a temptation to think that he may change his mind and fall in love with you.

Now, it is true that he may fall in love with you over time. Sagittarius men can and do form emotional attachments. Yet, if that is what you want from him, you will need to be patient and wait a long time. If you press any form of commitment before he is ready, he will leave. That is just a part of his nature.

3) Be able to keep up with him

How to Seduce a Sagittarius Man - Be able to keep up with him

A Sagittarius man likes to be on the move. He is happiest when he is traveling, and his travels are not usually to settled places with luxuries or amenities.

While a Sagittarius man does value and protect his freedom, he is not a loner. He enjoys other people, and he is happy to have a traveling companion. That is so long as that traveling companion does not hold him back in any way.

If you can become such a traveling companion for him, you have a very good chance of being able to seduce him. Going on adventures and facing hardships are the lifeblood of a Sagittarius man. He will feel strong and virile while he is on them.

You have an even better chance of seducing a Sagittarius man if you are able to not only keep up with him, but you also have the ability to take him further than he would have gone alone. He admires a woman who can take risks and who is not afraid.

How to Win a Sagittarius Man

While attracting and seducing a Sagittarius man is hard, it is nothing compared to trying to win him. A Sagittarius man is notoriously shy of any commitment, and it will be a very special person who will be able to convince him to settle down.

1) Change your look regularly

One of the biggest hurdles to overcome when trying to win a Sagittarius man is his intense dislike of boredom and routine. It is hard for him to imagine being with one person for the rest of his life.

One of the ways to demonstrate that he will not be bored with you is to show him all of the various facets of your personality. The simplest way to do that is to vary your look on a regular basis.

For example, one day dress in an ultra-feminine manner and the next don a tomboyish look. These changes will have to be rather dramatic. A Sagittarius man probably will not notice subtle changes to your hair or make-up.

Not only should you change your clothing, but let the various outfits transform you. Everyone has different facets to their personalities. Let yours shine so that he never quite knows who he is going to get.

This will keep his attention and his interest and help convince him that life with you will not be boring.

2) Have other friends and other interests

How to Win a Sagittarius Man - Have your own friends and other interests

If you want to share your life with a Sagittarius man, it is absolutely essential that you have your own friends and interests outside of your relationship. It will keep you interesting to him, and it will keep you happy and healthy.

If you expect to spend all of your time with him, he may try to accommodate you. If he does, it will not take very long for him to begin to feel stifled and confined. He really does need his freedom to roam and to do as he pleases.

In order to cope with this, it will be important for you to have a life of your own that keeps you busy and fulfilled. This way you are not pining for him when he is gone. Furthermore, you will have interesting things to tell him when he returns.

A Sagittarius man is far more likely to accept you as a lifelong companion if he can come and go as he pleases. This is particularly the case if he can share the stories of his adventures with you, and if he can listen to your adventures in return.

3) By all means, do NOT show jealousy

If there is anything that will drive a Sagittarius man away, it is displays of jealousy or possessiveness. He cannot abide by them, and it will make him feel like you want to control him or hold him back.

With other signs, you can make mistakes and preserve the relationship, but this can be a challenge with a Sagittarius man. He is forgiving, and he rarely holds grudges, but it does not take much for him to feel restless and want to leave.

A Sagittarius man does not have a sense that anything in life is permanent, including his relationships. Because of this, it is very hard to convince him to work to repair a relationship. He tends to just move on.

Avoiding jealousy is not an easy thing to do. On the other hand, with a Sagittarius man, you do have some things working in your favor. One of them is that he is absolutely and completely honest most of the time. Indeed, at times he can be too honest.

This means that he is unlikely to have secret affairs. If he tried to, he would make a mess of it anyway, and you would know very quickly that something was going on. Because of this, you do not need to be suspicious of his friends or wonder what he is up to. He will tell you.

The other advantage is that a Sagittarius man will not be jealous of you either. You will be free to pursue your own interests, giving you less time to worry about what he may be up to.

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A Sagittarius man is a lot of fun, but his nature can be difficult for relationships. He values his freedom above all else, and he does not have a sense of permanence when it comes to relationships. It is possible to attract, seduce, and win a Sagittarius man, however, but you must convince him that life will be more interesting with you than without you. You also must avoid becoming jealous or needy so that you do not scare him off.