Getting a Gemini man to chase you represents a unique challenge. A Gemini man has an extremely short attention span, and for him, in many ways “out of sight is out of mind.” This is not a naturally aggressive sign, and Gemini men do not really chase after what they want.
The reason for this has to do with Gemini’s mode. A sign’s mode represents how it interacts with the world and with change. There are three different modes. The first is Cardinal. Cardinal Signs like to impose their will upon the world. They know what they want, and they go after it. The second is Fixed. Fixed Signs like everything in their world to remain as it is and avoid all change. The third is Mutable. Gemini is a Mutable Sign. Mutable Signs have no interest in imposing their will upon the world. For them, each day is a brand new beginning, and they often wake up in the morning thinking, “I wonder what today will bring.” They do not go after what they want. Instead, they enjoy whatever comes their way.
This means that it is unlikely that a Gemini man will chase you in the manner that one thinks of with these words. In most cases, you will have to take the initiative and drive the relationship. Your focus instead should be upon how to get and keep a Gemini man’s attention.
Table of Contents
- 1 What a Gemini Man Wants
- 2 How to Get a Gemini Man To Chase You
- 3 How to Get a Gemini Man to Keep Chasing You
- 4 How to Get a Gemini Man to Chase You Again
What a Gemini Man Wants
To get a Gemini man’s attention in order to chase you, it is helpful to know what he finds attractive and what he needs in a partner.
What does a Gemini man find attractive?
You can discover the traits a sign is attracted to, you can look to the 5th sign in the zodiac from that sign. In the case of Gemini, this sign is Libra. A Gemini man is interested in someone who is charming and diplomatic. He also admires someone who is well dressed and has impeccable manners. It takes more than these superficial qualities to catch the attention of a Gemini man, though. A Gemini man must be intellectually stimulated in order to feel any physical attraction. You must be able to talk intelligently about many different subjects and attract him with your wit as well as your charm.
What does a Gemini man need in a partner?
The traits a man will find attractive and the traits that he needs in a long-term partnership are always a bit different. To find the natural partner for any sign, you can look to the opposite sign. The opposite sign of Gemini is Sagittarius. While a Gemini man is attracted to someone charming and intelligent, he needs a partner who also has a sense of adventure. He is looking for someone who often travels to many different places and/or who explores different philosophical ideas. These travels and explorations give his natural partner many interesting things to talk about, which will keep a Gemini man continuously entertained.
How to Get a Gemini Man To Chase You
As discussed earlier, with respect to getting a Gemini man to chase you, you are really working to catch his attention. In order to do this, you must be charming, refined, and intelligent.
1) Dress elegantly
It is true that a Gemini man is generally more attracted to a woman’s intellect than her physical appearance. On the other hand, in order to get to the point where you can talk to him, you must first get him to notice you.
The look that a Gemini man finds attractive is one of refined elegance. You should not stand out too much. Your look should not be overly sexy or gaudy in any way. A softer appearance is better than one that is too hard or edgy. It is also important for you to dress at the right level for wherever you are, not too formal and not too casual.
A Gemini man notices details, so make sure your look is polished and put together from your head to your toes.
2) Use proper grammar
A Gemini man is good natured, and he can seem childlike in his delight over interesting things. He can also seem shallow in his tendency to flit from topic to topic in a conversation. Do not let this fool you. Gemini is ruled by Mercury, and among other things, Mercury governs details. To the extent that he is paying attention, he notices everything. Mercury’s other sign, Virgo, has a reputation for being a perfectionist, but Gemini can be one as well. Unlike Virgo, a Gemini man will rarely point out the flaws that he sees, but he does notice them.
In particular, a Gemini man pays attention to how people talk. Language is extremely important to him, and he will notice bad grammar. In his mind, the way a person uses language is a gauge of their intelligence. He may not be conscious of this, but someone who uses language poorly will quickly lose his attention. If you write him love letters, be just as careful. Nothing will kill his desire for you more than misspelled words.
It is wise to use good grammar in your texts to him as well, at least at first. It is quite common for a Gemini native to have pet peeves when it comes to text etiquette. So, until you learn his, be formal. On the other hand, if he uses abbreviations, then feel free to use the ones he does, but do not use ones that he does not. Do feel free to use clever emoji, though. They are fun, and he will enjoy them, particularly if you are creative in their use.
3) Have good manners
A Gemini man will notice if you are rude in any way to anyone, and this will make you unattractive to him. By the same token, he will also notice if you have extraordinary social grace, and this will make you irresistible to him. True courtesy, or the ability to say what you want to say without ruffling anyone else’s feathers, requires a strong command of language. For this reason, if you are able to be polite while still expressing yourself fully, he will be quite impressed. He will also enjoy it if he is able to catch things that you say that go over the heads of other people.
4) Have interesting things to say
A Gemini man likes to collect information. It is hard to find a topic from philosophy to car mechanics to knitting that he will not want to know a little about. The important thing is that it is something that he did not know before. For this reason, with a Gemini man, feel free to talk about yourself and your interests as much as you want. The more unique your interests are, the more interesting that they will be to him. Take care, however, to not talk about the same thing all of the time. A Gemini man wants to know a little bit about many different things. He is not really interested in exploring any topic in depth, and he bores easily.
How to Get a Gemini Man to Keep Chasing You
If getting a Gemini man to chase you is difficult, it is even harder to get him to keep chasing you. While charm and grace will get his attention, it takes an adventurous spirit to hold it.
5) Have your own interests
One of the biggest mistakes that one could make with a Gemini man is to center your life on him. This will make you extremely boring to him. He knows about himself and his own life. If your sole focus is on him, you are not bringing anything new to the table. On the other hand, if you do things apart from him, you have something to talk about when you are together that he does not already know.
6) Explore your own beliefs
Everyone believes something. Even if you think you do not believe in anything, that is a belief as well. Being aware of your beliefs will give you an inner confidence that will increase your attractiveness to him. Being able to articulate and defend your beliefs will also make you an interesting conversationalist. A Gemini man often enjoys playing “Devil’s Advocate,” and taking an opposing side just to keep the conversation going. If you are able to hold your own during these conversations, he will want to keep coming back for more.
These type of debates may not seem romantic to you, but it is important to remember that for a Gemini man, there is a strong link between intellectual and physical stimulation. It is not uncommon for a good discussion to lead to an enjoyable time in the bedroom.
7) Travel as much as you can, with or without him
To keep a Gemini man’s attention and interest, it is important to broaden your horizons as much as you can. The more you experience, the more interesting you will become. It goes without saying that a Gemini man will greatly enjoy traveling with you. On the other hand, travels without him are just as important, so long as you share stories of your adventures with him. You can also bring him gifts and souvenirs from your travels.
In addition to tangible gifts, if you go to a foreign country, learn a little of the language, so you can teach it to him. It does not need to be much. A few words here or there would be fine. You can also bring back new foods or recipes to try when you are back together.
8) Have a good sense of humor
A sense of humor is useful for any relationship, but it is particularly important with a Gemini man. This is a playful sign that likes to taste everything that life has to offer. He does not take himself or life too seriously. Just as intellectual stimulation is linked to physical stimulation for him, so is laughter. You can and should bring a sense of the silly and the absurd into the bedroom.
A Gemini man is especially fond of puns and plays on words. If you laugh at his and are able to tell some of your own, he will greatly enjoy being with you. If you are trying to seduce him, you may try to come up with clever innuendos that will make him laugh. On the other hand, it is important to remember to avoid repeating any of your jokes. He thrives on the new and novel and tires quickly of anything that is repetitive.
How to Get a Gemini Man to Chase You Again
It is very easy to lose the attention of a Gemini man, even if you are doing everything right. He has a short attention span and is easily distracted. So, if he begins to wander off, here are some things that you can do to draw him back in.
9) Change your appearance
One of the quickest ways to renew his interest in you is to change your appearance. In this, it is not enough to change your hairstyle or buy new clothes. To really draw him back in, you need to change your entire look.
Is your usual style soft and business-like? Try for an elegant, sophisticated look. Is your style androgynous? Try looking ultra-feminine. Do not be afraid to venture into the world of role play when you are doing this. Often a new look will bring out a new facet of your personality, which will also please and excite him.
Whatever change you make, however, it must be well-thought out and polished. Avoid looks that are sloppy even if they are casual.
10) Learn something new
One of the best ways to rekindle the interest of a Gemini man is to learn something new. It can be anything really. Try a new hobby, take a class, join a book club. Anything that gives you something new and different to talk about will help to rekindle his interest in you. Don’t be surprised if he wants to try whatever it is that you are doing himself.
11) Spend time with other people
If your relationship with a Gemini man seems to be getting dull and lifeless, it may be a good idea to spend some time with other people. Now, this does not mean romantically, unless that is the arrangement that you have with him. Instead, spend time with your friends or family. Go out on a social gathering without him.
The purpose of this is not to make him jealous or anything of the sort. Gemini men rarely get jealous. If they do, it is because that is indicated in another place in their birth chart. The purpose is for you to have social experiences that you can talk about with him. A Gemini man is a notorious gossip, and he likes to find out about different people. Don’t be surprised if he asks you about details that you did not pay attention to. He likes to know everything that he can about everyone that he is with, such as their relationship status, their job, their hobbies, and the like. If he asks you for such information about the people you are with, he is not trying to be controlling. He just wants to know.
12) Do not be jealous
More than anything else, a Gemini man needs to be social. No matter how much he loves someone, he will suffocate if that is the only person he spends time with. Also, he can seem like he is flirting when he is really not.
As mentioned before, a Gemini man wants to know everything about anyone he spends time with. This means that he gives a great deal of attention to others, particularly with those that he has just met. This can be taken in the wrong way, particularly by someone who is naturally more reserved.
Most of the time, these conversations will be innocent, but even if things go further than originally intended, it is still best not to show too much anger. Of course, you should have boundaries in your relationship with a Gemini man, but if he transgresses these boundaries, you want him to be able to tell you about it. If he tells you it did not mean anything, you can probably believe him. You may have to make a decision about what you will tolerate and what you will not, but it is best to do so rationally, and not out of excessive emotion.
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A Gemini man is easy going and fun to be with. On the other hand, relationships, especially monogamous ones, can be a challenge for him. In order to get him to chase you, keep chasing you, and to chase you again, you need to be as interesting and exciting as you can and be willing to learn and do new things. What do you think? How do you hold on to the interest of the Gemini man in your life? Please comment below.
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