12 Obvious Signs an Aquarius Woman Likes You

Signs an Aquarius Woman Likes You

Aquarius women are friendly, entertaining, and always interesting. They do not, however, tend to be all that romantic. Aquarius women tend to be reserved and intellectual, which can make it very difficult to know if she likes you. Yet, when an Aquarius woman does eventually fall in love, she is a devoted and stable companion. Read on to learn the signs an Aquarius woman likes you. Also see the signs an Aquarius man likes you.

Relationships in Astrology

Almost everybody knows their Sun Sign, but there is another sign that is just as important, if not more so, in determining how a person will act in relationships. This is the sign that was rising in the East at the moment of birth, and it is known as the Ascendant or Rising Sign. You can find your Ascendant by getting a Natal Chart. Two sites that will give you a Natal Chart for free are Astrodienst and Astrolabe. If you do not have an Ascendant sign, the Sun Sign will work as well.

Starting with the Ascendant/Rising Sign, or the Sun Sign if the Ascendant is not known, the chart is divided into 12 Houses. Each of these Houses represents a part of your life, and different types of relationships are located in different houses. Dating relationships grow and change, and it is common to notice that people change as this happens. There is an astrological reason for this. This reason is that as a dating relationship grows and deepens, it moves to different House locations in the chart. Most romantic relationships follow this path:

  • 1st House: initial attraction and beginning to see each other or date.
  • 11th House: developing a friendship
  • 5th House: blossoming into a romance
  • 7th House: becoming a long term committed relationship

This article will take you though this path and show you the signs an Aquarius woman likes you at each of these steps along the way.

Clear Signs an Aquarius Woman Likes You At Each Relationship Stage

Initial Attraction – Signs an Aquarius Woman is Interested in You

Initial Attraction - Signs an Aquarius Woman is Interested in You

The first stage of any relationship is the 1st House, or the Sign itself, which in this case is Aquarius. It is extremely difficult to know if an Aquarius woman likes you at this stage. The reason for that is that the Aquarius woman very likely does not know herself. As a general rule, Aquarius is not given to expressing emotion and tends to be rather aloof. Also, Aquarius is a Fixed Sign and can be the most unmoving of the Fixed Signs. Aquarius is Fixed Air, which is like a force field. An Aquarius woman cannot be moved by any outside force; she will only change on her own initiative. Still even at this stage, there are some subtle signs an Aquarius woman likes you.

1) She will pay more attention to you than other people in the room

If you meet an Aquarius woman in a social setting, and she spends more time with you than anyone else, it is a sure sign she finds you interesting. As an Air Sign, Aquarius is very social. An Aquarius woman will want to interact with many different types of people. It is not unusual for Aquarius women to have friends and acquaintances from all different backgrounds, cultures, and social classes. In her quirky way, she will be pleasant to all of them equally. It is rare for an Aquarius woman to dislike anyone, at least not at first. If she is attracted to you, however, she will pay more attention to you than the others in the room.

If you notice this, do proceed with caution. Even if an Aquarius woman has a crush on you, she will very likely not be aware of it herself. If you make any indication that your interest is of a romantic nature, she will almost certainly reject you. On the other hand, if she does reject you, all is not lost. If you back off with respect to romance, and she likes you, she will most likely continue to interact with you. More than any other sign, it is best to proceed patiently and slowly with an Aquarius woman. Despite any gender expectations you may have, it is generally a good idea to let her make the first move, particularly in the early stages of the relationship.

2) She will meet with you one-on-one

On of the clear signs an Aquarius woman likes you in the early stages is if she will agree to meet with you alone. This is not a date, mind you. If you ask her out on a date or call your meeting a date, she will quickly decline or make it clear that it is no such thing. This is not something to worry about, though.

The fact that she is meeting with you at all is a very good sign. While Aquarius women are social, they generally prefer to meet people in groups or social events. They are not generally all that comfortable with intimate one-on-one encounters with anyone. As always, it is best to be patient with an Aquarius woman and let her set the pace of your relationship. You might as well, as you will rarely persuade her to do anything she has not already decided herself she wants to do.

3) She will seek you out

You know you have made headway with an Aquarius woman if she initiates contact with you. One of the idiosynchrosies of Aquarians is that they rarely seek out company. They like social gatherings and enjoy being with people, but they generally do not go out of their way to see or talk to anyone. So, if she calls you, emails you, texts you, or in any way initiates communication with you, this is one of the sure signs an Aquarius woman likes you.

Developing a Friendship – Signs an Aquarius Woman is Feeling Close to You

Developing a Friendship - Signs an Aquarius Woman is Feeling Close to You

With an Aquarius woman, you may be in the initial stages of your relationship for quite a long time. If you have stayed the course and not scared her off, you may enter the next stage of your relationship, which is in the 11th House. The 11th House from Aquarius is Sagittarius. If you have reached this level with an Aquarius woman, you will notice that the relationship has taken on a more light-hearted flavor. Below are the signs an Aquarius woman likes you and is becoming friendly with you.

4) She will start telling jokes

It may not be obvious at first, but Aquarians tend to have a really good sense of humor. Like Capricorn women, Aquarian women have a dry sense of humor. The difference is that the Capricorn humor is very earthy, but the Aquarian human is very quirky. Aquarians view the world as outsiders, so they see things in a way that no one else does. This makes them amusing commentors on the human condition. When an Aquarius woman starts to feel close to you, she will start to share her hilarous observations with you.

5) She will show you just how eccentric she is

Aquarius has a well deserved reputation for eccentricity and quirkiness. They revel in being outside of the norm. It is almost certain that the Aquarian woman you are interested in has at least one, if not more, quirky hobbies or interests. She may have been in the chess club in high school or have played Dungeons and Dragons in college. Or else, she may be a game, manga, or anime otaku. She may collect soda pop bottle caps, or she may have every musical instrument known to humankind. Whatever it is, if she includes you in her eccentricities, you can be sure that this is one of the signs an Aquarius woman likes you and is starting to feel friendly with you.

6) She will want to take a road trip with you

As you start getting close to an Aquarius woman, she will want to go with you on a road trip. This will not be an ordinary trip to a city or well known vacation spot. It’ll probably be on the back roads somewhere to visit some unusual place like a UFO bookstore in the middle of the country. Aquarians are attracted to the strange and different places, and as she is getting close to you, she will want to share these types of adventures with you.

A Blossoming Romance – Signs an Aquarius Woman is Falling in Love With You

A Blossoming Romance - Signs an Aquarius Woman is Falling in Love With You

As you have been spending more and more time together, the relationship may develop into something more. The romantic stage of a relationship is located in the 5th House, and the 5th House from Aquarius is Gemini. With an Aquarius woman, there is unlikely to be a moment where she confesses her love to you or anything of the sort. You will just find yourself in a romance and one or both of you will just acknowledge that it has happened. Here are the signs that an Aquarius woman likes you and is falling in love.

7) She will get very talkative

Although Aquarius women are social and friendly they tend to do a lot more listening than talking. When an Aquarius woman falls in love, however, she will start to become a bit of a chatterbox. She will talk about lots of different things, and you may have trouble getting a word in edgewise. This is a sure sign that you have crossed from friendship to romance.

8) She will want to try new things with you

Aquarians become set in their ways rather early in life, usually before they start walking. Yet, when an Aquarius woman falls in love, she will begin to get curious and want to try new things. She may want to go to new restaurants, get a different hairstyle, or try out a new clothing style. She will want to learn what you like, and she may try out some of your interests and hobbies.

9) She will analyze every aspect of your relationship

Aquarians are quite cerebral, and rather than live their life, they tend to observe it from a distance. This goes for their love life as well. Aquarians also do not worry about normal social graces or respect taboo subjects. For that reason, they may discuss intimate matters of your relationship as if they were the subject of a college research project.

If you are a native of a more sensitive sign, this might make you feel unloved or unappreciated. This is far from the case, however. This is just what this sign does, and as strange as it may seem, it is one of the signs an Aquarian woman likes you.

Settling Down – Signs an Aquarius Woman Likes You and Wants a Long Term Relationship With You

Settling Down - Signs an Aquarius Woman Likes You and Wants a Long Term Relationship With You

As aloof and distant as Aquarius women seem, they do enter into marriages and long term commitments. Long term relationships are governed by the 7th House, and the 7th House from Aquarius is Leo. It may be surprising, but when an Aquarius woman does settle down, she usually does so for life, unless something truly unexpected happens.

10) You will realize that you are living together

The process of coming to live together is an interesting one with an Aquarius woman. First she will stay the night once or twice. Then she will leave a toothbrush and change of clothes at your house. Then more and more of her belongings will arrive, until most of her belongings are at your house, and she has a toothbrush and change of clothes at her own. At this point, the two of you will acknowledge that you are already living together.

This process could also be reversed with you noticing that you have already moved in to her house.

11) She will suddenly become romantic

One day you will come home from work, and she will have made a romantic dinner complete with candlelight. She will be dressed in beautiful, feminine clothing. You may be tempted to think to yourself, “Who is this woman, and what has she done with my Aquarius love?” Do not be alarmed and just enjoy it. When this happens, you can be sure that this is one of the signs that an Aquarius woman likes you and is considering you her long term partner.

Aquarius women can be surprisingly charming and romantic when they find their permanent mate.

12) She may or may not be interested in a legal marriage

It is never safe to make assumptions about an Aquarius woman, and marriage is no exception. You may think that Aquarius women prefer unconventional marriages and living arrangements, but many do have rather conventional, legal marriages. While an Aquarius woman will likely have friends who have all sorts of strange partnerships and living arrangements, in most cases, Aquarian women prefer monogamy for themselves.

Still, if you are thinking of proposing to an Aquarius woman, you probably ought to test out the waters before buying a ring. The best way to do this is to enter a philosophical or intellectual discussion about marriage. She will usually tell you exactly how she feels about it. Whether she will agree to a marriage will have nothing to do with how she feels about you, but it will have everything to do with how she feels about the institution of marriage. Don’t worry. Unless you are truly obvious, she will probably not know that you are asking for personal reasons.

If she is anti-marriage in her philosophy, wait a little and try again. You may find that she has changed her mind over time. She will not admit she has changed her mind. If you mention it, she will almost certainly deny her earlier beliefs. It is not worth arguing about it, just take it as a green light to pop the question.

It may surprise you to know, but she will very likely appreciate a dramatic proposal, complete with you presenting her with a ring on one knee. The more interesting and inventive the proposal, the more likely it is that she will say “yes.”


Aquarian women are interesting companions. They are rarely warm and fuzzy, but they are incredibly steady and loyal. They have a strange mix of interesting, unconventional ideas with a stubborn, conservative streak. If you are interested in an Aquarius woman, watch for these signs that she likes you in return. What do you think, does your Aquarius woman show she likes you in these ways?

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  1. Funny, because the first stage is the acts that the aquarius woman i like, does.

    As a Virgo man, I’m her complete opposite, I am straightforward about commitments, but luckily, we still have communication. I guess, I havent scared her away, even though I have done it a lot of times. Also, luckily for a virgo, i can wait and remain loyal.

    Because of this article, I can say, I am on the right track. I just have to accept the fact that I am friendzoned until we get used with each other. All I have to do now, is to always find a way on how to have time with her.

    • Man,As an Aquarius woman,that first stage is so me. I don’t fall in love easily,al give you some advice,when you guys start dating,you need to be able to give her space when she need it aquarius don’t do well with clingy people,be honest with her an aquarius can detect a lie in a blink of an eye. don’t do anything stupid to her,when you lose her trust,her trust is gone forever bud. that’s an aquarius. your welcome for the advice. as an aquarius I know what we do and how we are.

  2. Im in love with aquarian woman, we both have the same birthdates and lots of similarities. Its challenging for me to please her because shes very mysterious and i believe she does to me. I know if we remain friend for now, soon we’ll have a romantic relationship base on that. I also know that If we can work together as friends, a comfort zone will be establish and we both have a relationship thet we can rely on.

    • Hey brother! I’m Dany. Hope u r good and the girl u love is settled with u as it’s been a long since u have posted this.
      Yes, u maybe asking y I’m replying u so let me tell u that I’m 2 loving a Aquarian girl and the main point which i dont like of Aquarian women’s is they r Unpredictable,Mysterious..Never know how they will behave sometimes.
      hopefully everything will be fine.😇

  3. Well, I just met an Aquarius whom these signs fit her perfectly. I’m a Libra and she an I were involved many years ago in school, until she declined my proposal, now I understand why. I have returned from Afghanistan and she hit me up again after 25 years, she’s a fireball of fun to be around, But we are in a friend stage currently, maby next time I ask her hand she will accept my proposal, but for now I just gotta be patient.

  4. first five stages are really match with my story… but unluckily i cant convert the freindship into love… now she gone and got married… i miss her….

  5. Thank you for this list.
    Currently I’m checking out weather a Aquarius Girl Liked me or not, I’m a Virgo Woman. We’ve opened up a whole lot and I suddenly feel surprised by the feelings that I have developed. I started talking to her first since I know how shy she could be. She’s honestly a lovable girl, but I’m not sure if she’s attracted to woman at all? She says she doesn’t know yet but so far I hope she is. I have to start the conversation since there’s a whole lot of people around me and she then feels a little nervous. I’ve got to known a lot about her. When she came to me with her hair short, I just wanted to hug her. She looked beautiful, she always had. At the end of the day when we had to say goodbye I came up behind her hugging her and saying “you look adorable, you’re beautiful.” She looked up shocked. She’s just someone that makes me feel amazing to have her in my life. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💕

  6. That’s adorable!!!
    I think she might be into you. Just give it some time to see if she might have a sexuality that makes her love girls too!

  7. First of all, i’m sorry for my english it’s not my native language.

    I met an Aquarius woman( she’s an ENFP for those who understand) in October 2018.
    She starts to chase me for 4 months. When i said chase i really meant it.
    Because we work in the same place it was easy for her to stick around me or try a conversation.

    Then she start to flirting with me, like:
    “I’m here because, i like you”
    “I come to work here because i want see you”
    ” We belong together because we have the same password”
    I didn’t reply on any flirt because I take time to bond with someone and to detach myself from them too.

    One day i accompanied his friend to station metro, and i tell her not to tell to anyone. So, she told to my crush, and my crush give me like every Aquarius woman does a COLD FACE, ignoring me for 3 weeks, like i don,’t existed anymore.

    I was so pissed of because i didn’t do anything wrong, i stop to trying to contact her, when she saw that she came back and try to talk with me like nothing happened before.

    Right now, she always flirting with me but than less the beginning i answer but she denied anything relate to romance. So date her and she refuses.
    “Aquarius woman: I’m sorry, i’m not interested, i have nothing against you i’m not a bitch.
    ” Me: Ok no problem, Sorry to have bothered you”
    “Aquarius woman: There’s no problem you don’t bother me”.

    So right now, i don’t know, she refuses because it’s too late i took too much time to dating her ( 7 months) and she’s not interested anymore.
    Or maybe it’s too soon she doesn’t want to commit yet because she’s an Aquarius and doesn’t want lose her freedom, she’s elusive etc …
    Or maybe she plays mind games

    Finally i compare my synastry chart her and we’re match so well. If someone want know about a our synastry chart, just asked me and i’ll send a picture, we’re so perfect together.

  8. I’ve just met an aquarius woman. We connect deeply as spiritual beings and as friends (although I sense we’re both attracted besides that).
    I just moved to a rural area in Sweden and she came here from Germany just a few weeks ago to work on a organic farm. We met at a dinner and as soon as we got eyecontact I knew it was ‘something’.
    A few days later she knocked in my door and wanted to say hi.
    We have done two roadtrips to nearby towns and I love her presence, albeit the aloofness which is not cold, but…aloof.
    After the first roadtrip she distanced herself a few days just to let me know after that that she uses my gift of incense every night.
    Yesterday she answered my invitation about shared evening meditation with “I would totally like to meditate with you”, only to say “I am confused and tired and must sleep” just before the time we set.
    This morning she texted me “Today is a new day, enjoy the sun!”.

    So here I am…Leo sun and Leo moon, having a challenge waiting 🙂

    Appreciated this article and comments.

  9. I’m a Leo and have known five Aquarians, and from those experiences I now despise all Aquarians. There’s nothing likeable about them.

    • lol uhm… excuse u? Jk its fine my friend he is a leo he litterally won’t text me anymore cause i “pissed his off” you should try talking to the aquarius you know. They are real cool!

  10. I am a Scorpio man. I could only make up with her to second stage. She was attractive as hell. She act mysterious and played hard to get games, I at the same time was not patient enough. Anyway, its both our lost.

  11. No lie, ive been keeping eyes on this page as a sort of measurement and these are all accurate af. Im a virgo interested in an aquarius and over the span of months, shes definitely shown these signs over time. Shes very subtle with her interest and we got really close over time, and there have been so many occasions where i knew i couldve pop the question. But the chase is always the funnest part and usually the most exciting, so try not to rush it and just enjoy yalls time together. Its definitely worth staying friendzoned for awhile lmao

  12. Not just in a romantic relationship but we tend to have one on one convo and get eccentric with people we like as good friends. Don’t get the wrong idea already.

  13. I’m an Aquarius woman, I just want to mention that if I like someone, the more he plays hard to get (but still he should show me somehow that he’s into me (I should make sure he does)) the more I’ll chase him, and the more I’ll want to be in a love relationship with him, and the less he’ll be friend-zoned, Good Luck.
    P.S: I flirt with friends the same way I do with a love partner. The only difference is that, If I’m flirting with someone just in front of “everybody”, then he’s just a “friend”. If I’m flirting with someone when we’re alone but not too much, I’ll make it “clear” that I love him, then he’s way more than just a friend.

  14. M a libra and have been experiencing an aquarius girl bout whom I’ve known so much due to the zodiac sign.As per ur information she likes me,and she shares way too personal things with me and has also planed a trip to norway in the future😏😏😏.I see she likes me

  15. I’m a 55 yo Leo man.
    Im helplessly in love with a 56 yo Aquarius woman.
    Much of this description is spot on.
    As a ENFP I’ve been able to react to her quirky traits and we’re getting very close.
    She’s gonna take a lot more hard work to capture her heart totally, but then….. that’s the fun of it.

  16. I am a Libran, and I am in love with an Aquarius woman. She recently broke up with her boyfriend and now I’m just being a good friend, to be by her side whenever she feels lonely. I feel so excited when we met up to have a journey to the cat cafe. She is giving me signs that she likes me, but she doesn’t really show it since she is not sure about it. I am not sure either but she showed me how eccentric she was and that made me fall even deeper in love with her. I have no idea. Her jokes were dry yet funny, and I always enjoyed her company with me. I always feel so safe around her, that even only both of us knew the deepest darkest secrets. Its the only place I feel home at, although we were only friends together. Please advice on the next step that I can do. Thanks

  17. Hey I’m a virgo man and I’ve been dating a aquarius for 5 years and we’ve never had sex, but she’s always texting me in the morning and she is still calling me day and night but I’m really trying hard to be with her even when I say I’ve had enough, she says don’t leave its like she doesn’t want me to be with anyone else but her I really do love her but she is so independent and loves to travel and she sends me pictures of herself should I keep holding on I’m really in love with her, and I know she is in love with me to but she has a funny way of showing it, so now I’m at my last width tell me what to do I don’t want to lose her

  18. I’ve just started dating a fine Aquarian Woman. We met then had 3 dates. And I’m so glad I read this because it is her all over. We’re in our 60’s and feeling it out. I’ve never had a woman tell me how she wants to be kissed? In fact I thought I was quite good at it, but I tend to get too far ahead for my own good. She has no issue saying slow down, which at first didn’t bode well with me. But I did tell her I appreciate the communication. And the lessons are free she says. I’m an Aries by the way. 4/3. So the last kiss I did it just as requested, and could tell she was quite pleased. You read things like sex after the 3rd date is the norm. I don’t think that’s even close with an Aquarian. She’ll have to initiate it I’m thinking. Or give a very strong indication. Hopefully I don’t miss the signal. As I’m anxious for that part of knowing her. Advice always appreciated. In fact, HELP!

  19. We are planning on going to dinner Sat. Valentines day was exactly what I read here, nothing? I thought it strange that any single woman not caring about the holiday. So glad I was led here to read this all. Aquarian woman, do advise.

  20. You have to tell her in person that you want to be serious with her. I as an Aqua woman, would want to make sure that my partner for life is reliable and won’t break my heart. She’s interested in you that’s for sure, but are you worth the long haul? Tell her if you are.

  21. Im an Aquarius woman, yes many says that im an unpredictable and mysterious. The fact is, we aren’t giving a fake hope for those who liked us. Once we were sure about the feeling, we will straight forward and and telling no lies about our feelings. If we dont show any romantic feeling towards you, that’s mean you’re not in the list. We don’t play hard to get unless we feel the same. Fun fact; Aquarius women will ignore you if they fall hard for you, it’s because they want to analyze how was the relationship meant for them. Give them space and soon will get right back to you. Don’t be too concerned.

  22. Well I’m also an Aquarian female but not to much of that sounds like me. I don’t know maybe because my moon sign is Pieces and my Ascendant sign is Scorpio? I am the loner type and don’t really want a bunch of people in my life……………yep there’s the Aquarius right there LOL! I crave being chased and won’t ignore anyone who wants to talk. That doesn’t mean I want to be with you 24/7, but I will tolerate someone being a little clingy as long as it doesn’t get out of hand. I value my freedom and my alone time, but when I’m in love I don’t have a problem showing it. Trust me I’m very willing to show my emotions and my desire. Again that must be the Pieces and Scorpio parts of me I dunno?

  23. Got my first date with an Aquarius woman yesterday and I’m an Aquarius aswell. She was very talkative and I enjoyed her company a lot 🙂


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