12 Obvious Signs a Virgo Woman Likes You

Signs a Virgo Woman Likes You

A Virgo woman has caught your eye. What are the signs a Virgo woman likes you in return? Like a Virgo man, a Virgo woman in love can be a hard thing to recognize.

Is a Virgo woman attracted to you? Does she think of you as friend? Is the Virgo woman falling in love with you? Is she ready for a committed relationship? We will take you from the moment you meet and start dating, to the time you are ready for something far more serious. Knowing the signs a Virgo woman likes you will help you determine when you have the green light to move the relationship to deeper levels.

The Stages of Relationships in Astrology

Relationships are complicated, and they go through stages. Astrology provides a map through each of the stages.

Just as there are 12 zodiac signs, there are also 12 Houses. These Houses are usually mapped from the Ascendant, or Rising Sign. If you know your Virgo woman’s date, time, and place of birth, and if she is willing, you can get a full birthchart for free at either of these sites, Astrodienst or Astrolabe. This chart will tell you the sign of her Ascendant, and you will get the most accurate information using that sign.

When an astrologer does not have a birthtime, they will use what is known as a Sunrise Chart, which is a map the Houses from the Sun. So, if all you know is her Sun Sign (Virgo in this case), you can still follow this map.

The stages of relationships are as follows:

  • 1st House – Getting to Know You
  • 11th House – Becoming Friends
  • 5th House – A Budding Romance
  • 7th House – Ready to Commit

12 Clear Signs a Virgo Woman Likes You – Stage by Stage

Getting to Know You – Signs a Virgo Woman is Attracted to You

Getting to Know You - Signs a Virgo Woman is Attracted to You

The first stage of any relationship is the 1st House, which is the sign itself, Virgo. This is where you meet and decide whether or not you want to meet again. These are the signs a Virgo woman is attracted to you at the “getting to know you” stage of the relationship.

1) She will have long, engaging conversations with you

Virgo is ruled by Mercury, and for a Virgo woman, attraction will begin with her mind. Virgos are usually very busy people, and they do not often have the time for idle conversation. If she takes the time to talk with you, you can be sure she finds you interesting, and she wants to know more about you.

If a Virgo woman is attracted to you, she will not be able to help wanting to have long, engaging conversations with you. She will make jokes and she will laugh at your jokes. She will want to talk with you a lot. This sign has a sharp wit and a surprisingly good sense of humor. She notices details no one else does, which makes her a fine observer of people. If she starts telling humorous stories about the things she sees, it is a sure sign that the Virgo woman is attracted to you.

2) She will notice everything about you

When a Virgo woman is attracted to you, she will pay attention to everything that you do. She will notice everything from the way you like your coffee to the kind of socks you like to wear. A Virgo woman has a keen eye for detail, and she notices every little thing. From early on, she will tell you things about you that you did not know about yourself.

3) She will make time for you

A Virgo woman will have a busy life. She will do her best in everything she does, and she is usually indispensable at her job. A Virgo woman will have more than her share of responsibilities in her social groups and organizations, and it is not uncommon for Virgos to be involved in charity work and other social causes. When a Virgo woman is attracted to you, however, she will carve time out of her schedule for you.

It may be hard for her to be spontaneous, and her time may be along the lines of having a lunch date every Tuesday and Thursday at 12:45 pm which lasts precisely 50 minutes. You can be sure, however, that the Virgo woman is showing she is attracted to you by setting that time aside just for you. If she turns off her phone and does not check her messages during your lunch, it is one of the clear signs a Virgo woman likes you.

Becoming Friends – Signs a Virgo Woman is Feeling Close to You

Becoming Friends - Signs a Virgo Woman is Feeling Close to You

In most cases, the next step in a relationship is a feeling of friendship or closeness. In astrology, this stage of a relationship belongs to the 11th House. The 11th House from Virgo is Cancer. When a Virgo woman is starting to feel close to you, she will become softer and more nurturing. She will worry about you and want to take care of you. These are the signs that a Virgo woman is moving from being merely attracted to feeling close.

4) She will soften with you

One of the signs a Virgo woman likes you and is starting to feel close to you is that she will soften around you. This sign is usually no-nonsense and business-like. When a Virgo woman starts to feel close, her hard exterior will soften. She will laugh and smile more.

When a Virgo women is feeling close, her appearance will also soften. She will let down her hair, literally. Her clothing will become a little more relaxed, a little more feminine. Virgo women usually dress neatly, conservatively, and modestly, but when a Virgo woman feels close, she will become less business-like and more casual.

The nature of your conversations will change. They will start to become more emotional. She will tell you her feelings and her insecurities. She might even cry in front of you.

5) She will worry about you

One of the clearest signs a Virgo woman likes you and is feeling close to you is that she will worry about you. She will want to make sure you are eating right, exercising regularly, getting enough sleep, and not working too hard. A Virgo woman truly and deeply cares about the welfare of those close to her, and she will be nervous at any indication that you are not taking care of yourself.

If a Virgo woman starts to nag you, she is showing you how much she cares. She may not say she loves you very often, but she demonstrates her affection by fussing over you.

6) She will cook for you

When a Virgo woman feels close to you, she will want to cook for you. She will have been paying attention to you, and she will know your favorite foods. Like everything a Virgo does, she will prepare the meal to perfection. The meal will be healthy and nutritious. She will chop the vegetables into precise, even bites. She may even prepare your lunch for the next day with leftovers.

A Budding Romance – Signs a Virgo Woman is Falling in Love With You

A Budding Romance - Signs a Virgo Woman is Falling in Love With YouA Budding Romance - Signs a Virgo Woman is Falling in Love With You

As the relationship progresses, if things are going well, the relationship will move from an 11th House close friendship to a 5th House romance. This is where things get complicated with a Virgo woman. The 5th House from Virgo is Saturn-ruled Capricorn. As strange as this may seem, a Virgo woman falling in love may go from soft and caring to more distant and business-like. This actually can be a good sign that a Virgo woman likes you in a more romantic way. It may very well mean that she has moved into a new stage of relationship with you.

7) She May Want Some Space

A Virgo woman falling in love will be surprised by her romantic feelings, and her first impulse will be to run away from them. Virgos are famous for their perfectionism. A Virgo woman will have her life well ordered. Romantic feelings will disturb her sense of control.

A Virgo woman will often turn her perfectionism in on herself, and she will be self-conscious of all her flaws. No matter how attractive she is, a modest Virgo woman will have a hard time believing that you return her affections. When moving from the 11th House with Moon-ruled Cancer to the 5th House with Saturn-ruled Capricorn, all of a Virgo woman’s insecurities may rise to the forefront.

At this point, you may be baffled and think that you have done something wrong. It is also possible that she may say you have. Virgo women can be quite critical. Virgo is not coy, though, and this sign is not one to refuse to say what is wrong. If she really wanted to end the relationship, she would do so. If she says she needs space to think, that is exactly what she does need.

So, if the Virgo woman you like suddenly wants distance for no apparent reason, don’t despair. Sudden avoidance is often one of the signs a Virgo woman likes you and is developing deep romantic feelings for you. If you wait patiently, in time, if she decides to move forward, she will adjust to her feelings and proceed into a new level of relationship with you.

8) She will want to go slowly

This sign is conservative by nature, and a Virgo woman will usually want to take things slowly. Virgos do not date casually, nor do they engage in intimacy lightly. Even when a Virgo woman has a crush on you, she will have rationally decided exactly how far she will go with you based on the stage of the relationship you are at. Her caution is a sign that she takes your relationship seriously, and she wants things to go at the right pace.

9) She will want to be useful

At this stage of the relationship, a Virgo woman in love will want to be useful. She will want to help you clean your house. She will find whatever area of your house that is in disarray, your closet, your sock drawer, your cabinets, your refrigerator, and she will want to put it in order.

Organizing your closet may not seem like the most romantic way to spend a weekend, but if this is what she wants to do, this is one of the sure signs a Virgo woman likes you. She is showing that she cares by trying to be as helpful as she can.

Ready to Commit – Signs A Virgo Woman Likes You Enough For a Long Term Relationship

Ready to Commit - Signs A Virgo Woman Likes You Enough For a Long Term Relationship

The final stage of a relationship belongs to the 7th House, traditionally called the House of Marriage. Any long term stable partnership belongs in this category, whether there is a marriage ceremony or not.

A Virgo woman’s 7th House is Pisces. When a Virgo woman is becoming serious about you, she will completely change. She has tested you and found you worthy. She is ready to fall head over heels in love. Here are some of the signs a Virgo woman likes you enough to see you as a long term partner.

10) She Will Melt With You

When a Virgo woman is ready for a commitment, she will completely melt with you. At this time, she will lose her strict and careful control, and she will let herself be free and spontaneous. She will talk freely and openly and laugh openly and expressively. You will see a gentleness in her that you did not see in the previous stages. She will be demonstrative, and even romantic.

11) She will ask your advice

Virgos are keenly analytical and aware of details no one else sees. For this reason, a Virgo woman usually knows better than most people the best way to do most things in her sphere. She is often quietly (or not so quietly) critical of what she sees as the sloppiness of others, so she will rarely ask anyone for advice.

When a Virgo woman is serious about you, however, she will think very highly of you, and she will have great respect for you and your thoughts and opinions. She may even start to ask you for help. When this happens it is one of the sure signs a Virgo woman likes you very much and is seeing you as a partner for the long term.

12) She Will Idolize You

When a Virgo woman is deeply in love, she will put you on a pedestal. You will be able to do no wrong in her eyes. The faults that she keenly noticed before will become charming quirks in her eyes.

When a Virgo woman is ready to commit, she will fantasize about you and your relationship. The down to earth Virgo will allow herself fairy tale dreams of your life together. You will become her Knight in Shining Armor.


Developing a relationship with a Virgo woman can be a long journey. The signs a Virgo woman likes you can be confusing and complex. At the end of the journey, however, she will accept you as her Knight in Shining Armor and want to live happily ever after with you. Watch for these signs a Virgo woman likes you at each of these stages along the way. What do you think, does your Virgo woman show she likes you in these ways?

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    • I am a Virgo man, just took liking in a Virgo woman. Reading her is like pulling teeth, she gives me all the right clues to her liking me. I am very much like my sign says and so is she, hope it works out. She is incredible to say the least.

  1. This is absolutely BS ! the virgo girl I was friends with showed every single one of these one by one and in this particular f*****g order. And when I asked her if she liked me as much as I did her, she said no I don’t feel you at all !!!! This is f*****g not true at all

    • She loses control if she says yes… Trust me she loves you. She’s just not sure if you earned it or if there is a solidified future. Don’t quit show her you care and don’t stop loving her.

    • This is True and She does. or did like you… but what you don’t understand is during the testing time there was something there that she spotted that she didn’t like.. I guarantee you it was something that made her back off emotionally.. You just need to find out what it is

      • Yes I am also going through the same phase …it’s been 6 months I love her ..and confessed but she said I don’t love you but all of the above things were absolutely right about her , she spend and want to spend a lot time with me want hugs …but I m waiting and I will wait.

    • I am Virgo and this was so accurate.. John, I was head over heels for a guy I use to know but when his friend asked me if I had a cousin available for him (for my crush) I quickly heard the words YES roll off my tounge without hesitation. I adored the guy but that incorrect answer ruined everything for me.. Bonus he was a Capricorn, but I still lost out coz my fear gave him the wrong impression. There was more to it but if your Virgo showed these signs then she did feel you, maybe she still does.

    • You have to wait for signals from her and try to match your words to her signals. Everything is on her time schedule. I’m going through the same thing. It can be maddening.

  2. i am aries .. i attracted to one of virgo women.. but as my zodiac with the virgo are really teribble combaination, i am fine with messy room. Importantly, i am not perfectionist, what should i do 😂 to be close to her ?

    • Hi Arf. Im a virgo and i think im in love with an aries. After reading this article i realized this. From my experience it doesn’t matter which sign you are once a virgo is in love with you, she will put you on a pedestal and would see past the messy room. She would offer to clean it.

  3. I’m a pisces man, I met a virgo girl on her job about 3 months ago, I don’t want get into too many details, we met 17 times so far, every time we made each other feel so wonderful, even it’s her job to make me feel great, but I can still feel something (maybe we both do) like soulmates, I enjoy the talk, but the kisses and the way we draw each other in, it’s like magical.

    In out last meet before she took her xmas and new year break, I can tell in our last conversation she wanted to meet me in new year’s eve, so I gave her my number, but she still didn’t txt me, I guess she was probably busy (she has another job) or changed her mind, but either way, I don’t mind, I’m still very much looking forward to meet her again next week, because I never met anyone like her before, I can feel the strong connection and more, hopefully she feels the same way.

  4. I’m a Virgo one to deny what isn’t particularly true, but what I have read before me is far too close to my reality, I want to deny this, not saying it’s bad but it is indeed true.

  5. Iam dating a Virgo woman and this is spot on. At first there was a lot of confusion and distrust, but after I got to know her, it’s been a long relaxing journey, she is my balance. I respect her very much, she treats so good and I’m happy with her pace, space and loyalty.

  6. I like a virgo girl. She likes me too. She knows that i love her liking is much more different from loving someone. Im her on the top of list of people in her. All the above phases mentioned are happening exactly the same. We are friends since 2 years. i love her alot and it took 8 months to make myself fall for her. When i told her my feelings on the new year eve she just went blank and said nothing. And now im stuck with the confusions and complexity of the situation that its been weeks and i m not able to ask her back that why she didn’t replied to my feelings on new year eve. Though there isn’t any change in her behaviour towards me. But not getting a reply from is disturbing me. Should i wait? Should i do something more? Please give some suggestions…!

    • Hi Im a virgo too.

      1.She probably just want to be a close friend of yours bcoz “Virgoes” will never stop finding a true friend (stronger than her) to keep her secured everytime.

      2. She loves you too but she might had a crush on somebody else and find it hard to tell you coz she don’t want to hurt your feelings.

      3. If you wait for her, she will definitely come to you and make you wait again for another phase of life.

      Virgoes can sometimes have difficulties in making a final decisions.

    • Give her time. She doesn’t like emotions and feeling pressured to make such a big statement like I love you back. Just keep being kind and attentive and wait for her to give you signs that she cares before you make such bold statements. Believe me I understand it’s really frustrating. You have to do everything on her time.

  7. My crush is a virgo and she showed almost all of these signs. But God help me with patience, i dont know sometimes i feel that she’s actually into me but then she starts flirting with one of my friends, then cusses him out when we by ourselves is that a thing with virgos?

  8. I met a Virgo and she is just like this article. Our story is unique, I’ve seen her at Church for years and then recently saw her on an online dating site. We’ve been chatting for a week. I just found out she was born in Sept (she has all the Virgo traits so I’m assuming before the 22nd.) so I’ve lowered my expectations and am trying to take it slow and be kind and loving online. Ironically I am a Virgo too so I know what it’s like so I can certainly relate because I have many of the same character traits. I hope it works out because we have so much in common it’s scary.

  9. I Love Virgo Girl she loves me before but I made mistakes bcoz I get so jealous thats why she change towards me when she broke up with me I apologized and I admit all my mistakes:(. I really love her so much and even she tried to push me away many times I didn’t give-up on her bcoz I so much love her very much and I promise to her that I would never get jealous anymore.She’s being causious now but I understand bcoz I hurt her when I’m being juealous thats why I never stop for showing how much I love her and how much I care about her.I want to make her back and I’m ready to do everything bcoz I really love her so much and she’s only I love and I want in my life forever.

  10. I’m the Mike from a few posts above. It’s been a month since my first post and it’s also been a whirlwind with my Virgo girl MaryAnn. We met for a bite to eat about 3 weeks ago. I thought it went well. But she did not. She was locked into meeting younger men on these dating sites. I tried to move on but I also kept in touch with her via messaging on this dating site. But I feel like maybe there’s some hope because no one has worked out for her on this dating site and we saw each other at Church for the first time since we started talking (we usually attend different masses). So maybe she’ll see me was a guy from Church. I’ve really been trying to pour on the charm in the chat and be nice. I’m hoping if I can be a friend first that will make her feel less anxious. Since I’m a Virgo also I think maybe I can crack that icy exterior and have a breakthrough with her. She is a tough nut to crack but it will be worth it because she’s a sweet Church-going girl.

  11. Based on this article and hopefully my experience as long as there’s communication and you make a commitment to her and outlast the other guys in her life you have a chance. Plus be super nice and sweet. I tell my girl little stories about romantic stuff I’ve done and share special poetic verses that I like and tell her little secrets about myself that no one knows hoping to break through. I’m a Virgo too so I have the patience to see this through and hopefully know what to do. Hopefully there’s a happy ending.

  12. I’m an Aquarius man in a relationship with a Virgo. We started out 61/2 years ago. I was unsure in the beginning that I even wanted to be a boyfriend. She actually asked me numerous times to be more than friends. Eventually I said yes and we just really started to click. We would talk about all the good stuff like family,our future together our goals. I always told her that once she graduated collage I was going to propose. Which is exactly what I did. Not even 1 month after she graduated I asked her to marry me. We were dating for 4 years. We’ve been engaged for 1 year 4mths. Ever since our engagement I can’t pin point a time, she has been distant not wanting to talk about her feelings almost like she’s trying to distance her self step(7). I would say we’ve been in this faze for a couple mths. I’m just worried I’m giving her to much space and making her feel unwanted. I would just like some clues to how long this will last. I’m willing to wait until she gets herself back on track and opens back up.

    • Never take your Virgo girl for granted even after years. If you did (or you didn’t realize you did), she’ll find another better Mr Perfect. Good luck dude, hopefully I was wrong!

  13. I’m the Mike from above. I really liked this Virgo woman and unfortunately nothing will come of it. I hoped she would come around. While she has the traits discussed-she is sweet and charming and alluring, she is also stubborn and self-centered. Her main issue with me was I was 3 years older than her age requirement (which makes me 3 years older than her). She couldn’t step out of her comfort zone and give just a little. It’s a shame because I see her in Church and she lives 2 minutes away so it would have been easy to give it a try. But that’s her stubbornness rearing its ugly head. I like to see the best in people but she has jaded me a bit. I get over her by doing what she does-think the worst of me. So now I’m glad it didn’t work because she was so boring and if you didn’t want to talk about what she wanted to talk about she would shut down. Screw that. I think I’ll stick to the other signs that are more compatible and a little more understanding of others.

    • She’s only boring to you because you’re not worth of her. It’s better to find someone close to your level. Virgo girls usually settle for Mr Perfect, not Mr Ok.

      • A guy who goes to Church every week and who lives 2 minutes away and who is interested in her when no one else is interested sounds as close to perfect as a person can get. I guess perfect in her eyes is someone who appears to be perfect in a fairy tale kind of way. I know Virgos are perfectionists because I am one too but I’ve learned over the years that there’s no such thing as a perfect person. I seek compatibility over perfection.

  14. My Virgo lady told me I’m like Superman. If Superman isn’t perfect, who else is. She’s also perfect in my eyes and my heart. I’m not Virgo. But I seek both compatibility and perfection. She’s The One.

  15. I dated a Virgo lady many years ago and for a bout two years. She left me because she didn’t think that I was responsible enough about our relationship. She was right. I could have been a better lover. Since then, I got married, I got divorced, I dated several women who were all beautiful and exceptional to my eyes, however, however, even now, I miss her. She was the best person that I could have. I had her and let her go.


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