Scorpio is the sign of extremes, and a Scorpio woman never does anything halfway. This is true for matters of the heart as well. It takes a long time to win the heart of a Scorpio woman, and when she gives it away, she usually mates for life. Scorpios are famous for being mysterious and complicated. If you have fallen for a Scorpio woman, we will take you through the signs a Scorpio woman likes you. Also see the signs a Scorpio man likes you.
What Zodiac Sign to Use
Most people know their Sun Sign, but just as important, if not more so, is the sign that was rising in the East when you were born, which is known as the Ascendant. Astrologers divide the sky into sections known as Houses starting with that sign. These Houses govern the different areas of our lives, and different types of relationships are located in different Houses.
You can learn the Ascendant or Rising Sign from a Natal Chart. You will need a date, time, and place of birth. If you have this information, you can get a Natal Chart for free from either Astrodienst or Astrolabe. If you known her Ascendant, it will give the most accurate results, but if you do not, the Sun Sign will work as well.
The Four Stages of Relationships
Mars is the traditional ruler of Scorpio, and wooing a Scorpio woman is like embarking on a quest to gain entry into a castle. A Scorpio woman falling in love falls deeply and hard, so she protects herself with barriers to prevent that from happening until she finds the right person. These barriers are predictable, however. They follow the logical stages of relationship development, and the astrological Houses provide a map to each barrier.
The first stage is the 1st House, and you must pass through this House before developing any kind of relationship at all. The second stage is the 11th House, which brings you to the level of friendship. The third stage is the 5th House, where the Scorpio woman will allow herself romantic feelings towards you. The fourth and final stage is the 7th House, where the Scorpio woman is ready for a lifetime commitment.
We will guide you on this quest with the signs a Scorpio woman likes you at each of these stages.
Clear Signs a Scorpio Woman Likes You at Each Stage
The First Stage – Signs a Scorpio Woman Likes You and is Interested in You
For any type of relationship the first stage is governed by the 1st House. This can be seen as the outside door where you knock and see if you will be allowed inside. This House is always the sign itself, which in this case is Scorpio. A Scorpio woman guards this first door very carefully, and few people ever get beyond this level. Here are the signs a Scorpio woman likes you and is willing to let you through the door to this first stage.
1) She will go out with you
The first and foremost sign a Scorpio woman is interested in you is that she will see you at all. If a Scorpio woman has no interest in you, she will reject you outright. By the way, this is true at any level when dating a Scorpio woman. A scorpion will sting itself before being defeated by a larger animal, and no matter how difficult or painful it is for her, a Scorpio woman will break up with you totally and completely if she needs to. Once you are shown the door, you will never be allowed back in.
So, if a Scorpio woman will see you at all, you can be sure that this is one of the signs a Scorpio woman likes you.
2) She will ask you questions about yourself
A Scorpio woman will want to know as much about you as she can as early as possible. In the early stages of your relationship with a Scorpio woman, you will find yourself doing most of the talking. She will be paying close attention, not just to what you say but how you act. She will also be paying close attention to how you treat others around you, such as the wait staff of the restaurant. From the very first, a Scorpio woman will looking at you as a potential partner, so she will want to gather as much information as possible.
If she likes what she sees and hears, she will continue to show interest. If she does not, you will know. Her eyes will glaze over, and you will be able to tell from her voice and her demeanor that she has closed and locked the door to her heart.
3) She will self-disclose
A Scorpio woman will likely keep the relationship at this level for some time. Scorpio is a Fixed Sign and is slow to move and change. At some point, though, she will do something rather surprising. She will tell you something very deep and personal about herself. Prior to this, you will have likely done most of the talking, and she will have revealed very little about herself. Yet, when she does reveal something, it probably be something quite intimate and often very embarrassing.
This is a test. She is thinking of letting you through the second stage. Rejection is very painful for her, so in her eyes, if you are going to leave her, it is best that you do so early on, before she gets too attached. She is telling you the thing or things she thinks you may reject her for. She is giving you a chance to leave now, if you want to.
If you pass this test and stay, she will probably let you through the second stage.
The Second Stage – Signs a Scorpio Woman Likes You and Considers You a Friend
Often the words “just friends” are used in a dismissive way. For a Scorpio woman, however, there is no “just” about it. Scorpio women choose their friends very carefully. They rarely have many friends, but they value each of their friends very highly. With some signs, it might be possible to skip or move quickly through the friendship stage. This would be highly unlikely with a Scorpio woman, however. Friendship is an 11th House relationship, and the 11th House from Scorpio is Mercury-ruled Virgo. Before a Scorpio woman falls in love with you, she will have to see if she likes you on an intellectual level.
4) She will talk freely with you
Once she has revealed her deepest, darkest secrets, and you have not been scared off, she will start to open up about many things. Conversations will become more mutual, and you might even find that she does more talking than you. She is still paying close attention to you, but it will have a different feel to it. She will seem a little more relaxed and a little less guarded.
5) She will keep her distance, physically
With Scorpio women, there is no such thing as “friends with benefits.” Scorpio has a reputation as a “sexy” sign, but it is a lot more complicated than that. Almost all Scorpio women are at least slightly empathic, and most are very empathic, whether they are aware of it or not. They spend much of their lives shielding themselves from the emotions of others. For an empath, physical touch breaks down any shielding they have.
A Scorpio woman is not really capable of casual sex. Physical intimacy will create a powerful bond for her, whether she wants that bond or not. If a Scorpio woman is not a virgin and is available, she will have learned that lesson the hard way, and she will be bearing scars from a deeply broken heart. She will be loathe to repeat that mistake.
One of the clear signs that a Scorpio woman likes you and is thinking of letting you through the third stage is when she starts sharing her interests with you. A Scorpio woman will usually have at least one or two interests she is passionate about. She will want to know whether you share these interests or are at least willing to tolerate them.
It might not be obvious, but this is another test. Scorpio women do not act on impulse, but think well into the future. She is considering you as a possible lifetime mate, and she wants to know if she can have her passions and you as well.
The Third Stage – Signs a Scorpio Woman Likes You and is Falling in Love With You
It may take some time, but at some point, a Scorpio woman will allow herself to fall in love. She has learned that you are not going to go away, that you are intellectually compatible, and that you are willing to allow her to keep her other passions. She is ready to let you in to the inner chambers of her heart. This stage of a relationship is governed by the 5th House, and the 5th House from Scorpio is Pisces. There will be very clear and obvious signs a Scorpio woman likes you at this level and is falling in love.
7) She will drop her guard
When a Scorpio woman falls in love, she drops her guard completely. Always before, it has been clear that she was watching you and testing you. When she falls in love, however, she will be spontaneous and free with you. The hard exterior will fall, and she will become soft and gentle. She will change the way she dresses. Her clothes will be more relaxed and feminine. Her appearance will have an almost magical quality.
8) She will cry in front of you
Scorpio women have deep emotions, but they do not show them to just anyone. A Scorpio woman in love will allow herself to be vulnerable. She will cry in front of you rather than holding back her tears. She will allow you to hold her and comfort her.
9) She will allow physical intimacy
As we discussed before, a Scorpio woman will go very slow with respect to physical intimacy. If she has any experience dating at all, she will know that she will imprint on any sexual partner. She will also know the bond that forms will be very hard and painful for her to break. For her, this is the point of no return. When a Scorpio woman gives her body, she also gives her heart, mind, and soul. She can not help it. So, when she says “yes,” this is one of the clear signs a Scorpio woman likes you and is ready to let you through the fourth and final stage.
The Fourth Stage – Signs a Scorpio Woman Likes You and Wants to Be With You for Life
Long-term committed relationships belong to the 7th House, and the 7th House from Scorpio is Taurus. As stated before, unless something goes seriously wrong, a Scorpio woman mates for life. If you have gotten to this stage, the signs will be quite clear.
10) She will relax with you
One of the biggest shifts when moving from a dating relationship to a long term commitment with a Scorpio woman is that she will relax. In the early stages of the relationship, she would have been quite guarded with you, and in the third stage, there will be a deep intense quality, as all of the pent up attraction is let loose.
Once you have reached the fourth and final stage, however, the Scorpio woman will finally feel safe with you, and she will adopt a relaxed and easy demeanor around you. She will talk and listen openly, and you will no longer feel like you are being interrogated or tested. She will start simply being herself.
11) She will be physically affectionate with you
One of the signs that a Scorpio woman likes you and has bonded with you is that she will become very affectionate with you on a physical level. She will touch you and want to be touched by you. She will want to cuddle often. Physical touch will become natural and free. This will be in stark contrast to the earlier stages of the relationship, which were strictly hands-off. When she becomes physically affectionate with you on a regular and casual basis, this is one of the clearest signs a Scorpio woman likes you and has bonded with you on a deep level.
12) She will want you to marry her
No matter what moral or religious beliefs she has, and no matter her political leanings, a Scorpio woman is usually quite conservative at heart. Other signs might be happy with an unconventional arrangement, but a Scorpio woman will not. A Scorpio woman will want you to marry her in a legally binding ceremony.
Scorpio women are intensely loyal and are famous for their jealousy. This will not be an open marriage, nor will she abide infidelity. If a Scorpio woman has bonded to someone she will be faithful to the bitter end, and she will expect the same in return. A Scorpio woman may show signs of jealousy at earlier stages of the relationship, as she will be considering you as a potential marriage partner all along. She will most certainly show signs of jealousy, however, when she has bonded with you and is ready to commit.
Courting a Scorpio woman is not for the feint of heart. She will test you at every stage, and these tests will not be easy. If you want a passionate and loving woman with unshakeable loyalty and faithfulness, however, this journey will be well worth the effort. To help you on your quest, pay attention to these signposts along the way. What do you think, does your Scorpio woman show she likes you in these ways?